Melody Jacob

Lifestyle Blogger



The boy child is like a moving vehicle faster than a bugatti.
He learned to walk too fast.
Get over things like the future flash.
Nobody is teaching this boy positive masculinity, and he wears armor just to cover his insecurities.
You have been neglected for so long, and now to cry reminds you you're less of a man when crying is a part of growing too.
Someone tell this male that tears are welcome here.
The journey is only sweet when there is some ofe onugbu to accompany the fufu.
The bitter leaf is never complete without something to swallow, and the journey is bittersweet for the boy child to be a man when the man didn't finish learning how to first be a boy.
He's been walked out of the room when it comes to sexual abuse, and now the boy child can't say me too.
So he continues to walk too fast and chase the bag with the responsibility of the world on his shoulders.
This boy is a family man, striving for perfection that can only make a mad man run mad.
But someone tells him he's in control and that his presence commands attention.
An authority known for Kings because he's one
So please teach your sons and the ones unborn.
Teach boys carefully, patiently and, most importantly, lovingly.
 
By Ibquake

Happy International Men's Day.

Photo by Mathew Thomas

The Lost Children is a powerful Netflix documentary about a plane crash in Colombia, deep within a jungle near an indigenous community. This community had long struggled with government oppression and claimed mistreatment by the military. When the crash first occurred, the military couldn’t locate the wreckage. In response, members of the indigenous community took it upon themselves to search for the plane.

A 14-year-old boy, who had seen a small blue object in the jungle, guided the group to the wreckage. Despite using advanced technology, the military had been unable to find the plane, but this teenager led them straight to it. Upon examining the wreckage, they found no children’s bodies. Some boxes were opened, and signs suggested that the children might still be alive—including a 14-month-old baby.

The military continued their search with no progress, while people around the world anxiously awaited news. However, the indigenous people, not initially asked to help, remained patient, allowing the military to continue. Eventually, the military acknowledged their expertise and requested their assistance, and that’s when the true search began.

The indigenous people have a profound connection to the jungle, understanding it in ways the military could never. They also believe that not all powers are physical. So, they prayed and performed a ritual involving herbs, while others stayed behind and prayed for success. The military had to use helicopters to navigate the treacherous jungle, filled with wild animals. The first man to attempt the ritual was the father of the children, but he was immediately rejected. Instead, an elderly man was asked to drink the herbs and sit in a particular spot to receive guidance. In a trance-like state, he said he transformed into a tiger, saw lights, and found the children.

The next morning, he predicted they would find the children by 3 p.m. that day—the last day of the search. And they did. The children were found weak and emaciated, but alive. Their survival was a miracle, guided by nature and protected by God. The children shared that they had seen their mother die in the crash, but they had left the wreckage in search of help.

By now, I’m sure most of you are aware of the recently concluded Miss Universe competition. I followed the show closely, and in my opinion, Miss Nigeria, Chidimma Adetshina, truly deserved that crown. She was the clear standout, but of course, the judges made their choice, and she ended up as the first runner-up.

Chidinma answered all her questions with poise and intelligence, and she’s an absolutely stunning woman. I’m not just saying this because she’s Nigerian—I genuinely believe she was the best on that stage.

For those who may not know, Chidinma is a dedicated law student who has faced considerable backlash from some in South Africa due to her mixed heritage. Despite this, Nigeria has embraced her wholeheartedly, and she’s made us incredibly proud.

Congratulations to all the participants. I wish them all the best in their future endeavors.





Are you planning anything special for Christmas this year? Honestly, I’m not sure what this Christmas will look like for me, but one thing’s for sure—if there’s a chance to attend any festive events, I will be showing up looking my best!

I recently dug out this stunning blackless dress from Uoozee that I’ve had in my closet for a while. When I finally wore it, the fabulous flare sleeves were the perfect fit for me. The dress is a solid color, high-neck, backless mini, and I like it! Since it's already freezing, I paired it with pantyhose, and honestly, it didn’t look bad at all! A little layering hack for winter parties, you know?

Speaking of parties, the holiday season is officially upon us, which means it’s time to plan those Christmas and New Year looks! I’ve got a bunch of holiday outfits lined up that I can't wait to share, but for now, let’s talk about the top trends this season. If you haven’t picked out your outfit for the office party, family gathering, or just a fun night out, there’s still time! Trust me, you don’t have to go overboard. Sometimes the best outfits are the ones you already own.Here’s a little secret: I’m not big on over-planning my outfits. I usually just visualize something cute in my head, do a quick ironing session if needed, hang it up, and I’m good to go. Trying on too many outfits just leaves me tired and confused, and I end up picking the wrong one anyway—can anyone relate?

But seriously, finding the perfect Christmas outfit is all about striking that balance. You want to look unique and original but also honor those classic traditions (yes, I’m talking about wearing something red! . You really don’t need to splurge to look fabulous—chances are, you’ve already got some great pieces in your closet. Just add a little sparkle here and there, maybe a shimmery bag or glittery shoes, and you’re all set to dazzle!

So, go ahead, grab that dress you’ve been saving, throw on a touch of glitter, add some fun accessories, and make that outfit shine. Oh, and don’t forget a cozy pair of hose—it’s giving me all the holiday vibes!

Now tell me, any fun Christmas plans on the horizon? Or have you picked out your perfect holiday look yet? Let’s chat in the comments!




Cars driving on a foggy road.

Today, Glasgow is extremely foggy, which often leads to a moody atmosphere. However, it's an ideal time to light candles and enjoy a relaxing movie. Personally, if you don't have any important activities outside of your house, I recommend staying indoors.

Foggy days are perfect for cuddling up in a blanket, lighting some scented candles, and enjoying a warm cup of pumpkin spice tea. If you have to go out, be vigilant and walk away from the roadway. Use less-busy footways that are close to motorways. Drivers do not see far, even though there are fog lights in cars.

For any motorist, one of the worst conditions is driving in fog. The thick mist greatly obscures vision, thereby making it difficult to see possible hazards, estimate distances, or even tell moving from stationary cars apart. This thorough advice will enable you to safely negotiate foggy weather.
 
Understanding the Difficulties of Foggy Conditions

Fog can seriously affect both your visibility on the road and in other cars. Visibility may occasionally reduce to only a few meters, which would make it challenging to estimate speed or tell if the car ahead is still or moving. This lowered visibility height increases the likelihood of crashes; hence, your driving behavior needs to change.

Basic Advice for Safe Driving in Fog: Use dipped headlights, wipers, and demisters.

Driving in fog, always switch to dipped headlights. High beams reflect off the fog, producing glare and even more limited seeing. Keep your windshield clear by running your wipers and demisters.

Turn on foglights as needed.

Front and rear fog lights, designed to cut through mist, enhance your car's visibility to others. Turn them off when circumstances improve to prevent blinding other vehicles; use them if visibility falls below 100 meters.

Change your pace and boost your following distance.

Drive at a slower pace than usual due to the possibility of fog impairing your ability to judge speed. Allow a minimum three-second gap between you and the vehicle in front instead of the usual two. This greater distance gives more time to react to abrupt stops.

Avoid relying solely on automatic lights.

Automatic headlights might not turn on in misty weather, particularly during the day. Make sure your lights are manually turned on to remain visible to other drivers.

Remain vigilant at interchanges.
If you have limited sight at a junction, open your windows to listen for vehicles. This can enable you to identify approaching cars you might not be able to see.



Mistakes people make when driving in Fog
  • Avoid tailgating other vehicles.
  • Especially if you rely on the automobile ahead to assist you, following too closely can cause you to feel falsely secure. 
  • Stay far enough to prevent running across each other.
  • Avoid accelerating to flee tailgaters.
  • It can be tempting to accelerate if a car is behind too closely. Rather, keep a constant, safe speed and let them pass if at all feasible.
  • Never rely just on daytime running lights.
  • Only the front of your car is lit by these lights. To avoid rear-end incidents, make sure your back lights are also on.
Getting your vehicle ready for a drive-through fog

Make sure your car is in the best shape for foggy conditions before you start driving.
  • Clean your windows and lights; dirt and grime will help to further obscure the view. 
  • Check your windscreen, fog lights, and headlights for perfect clarity.
  • Examine batteries and fuel levels. A particularly risky situation could be running out of petrol or experiencing a break in fog. 
  • Check that your car is fit for the trip.
  • Verify that every light is operational. Make sure your fog lights are working properly, as they will allow other cars to see you.

Does every car come with fog lights?

Absolutely, it's a requirement for all cars to have rear fog lights! It's important to note that not all cars come equipped with front fog lights, as they are not mandatory.


You all know that when I share a product I genuinely love and that’s worth the hype, I go all out. I'm beyond thrilled and proud to introduce this gem to you: the Deux Float Portable Laptop Monitor.

I've always wanted an extended laptop screen, and since getting the Deux Float, my productivity has genuinely hit a new level. This product is perfect if you’re looking to boost productivity or make work more enjoyable. I can multitask so effortlessly, and on days when I want to make work more fun, I can stream something on one screen while working on the other. It's honestly a game changer.

What makes it so special? For starters, it has a super-responsive 1080p touchscreen, so you don’t even need a mouse to interact with it. It’s a spacious 15.6-inch display that pairs perfectly with 15 to 16-inch laptops.

Setting it up couldn’t be easier. The manual is clear and even includes photos, so you know you’re doing it right. I was excited to try it out with everything I own—it works with my Chromebook, my laptop, and even my phone! Just plug in the cable, and it connects instantly, no extra setup needed.

The Duex Float also has a built-in kickstand, which is amazing for using it on its own without attaching it to the laptop. The kickstand works with any laptop size, but if you prefer the magnetic attachment, they include four magnets for that option too.



I love how portable it is. Its compact, foldable design makes it easy to carry around. There’s also an option to adjust the screen’s color to protect your eyes during long workdays or late nights. The dual-hinge system is incredibly flexible, offering three modes: dual-screen, presentation, and desktop mode. So you can set it up in whatever way suits your productivity needs. As an independent display, it’s perfect for gaming or working with documents, and you can flip the screen around to easily share content with someone in front of you—great for work presentations or even just casual viewing.

One awesome feature is that the screen rotates both ways. You can easily show someone something on the screen without having to move your whole setup, making it perfect for collaborative work. Another person can use the Duex screen while you’re working on your laptop screen, which makes it super practical.

It’s also compatible with Apple Stage Manager for iPad OS! Instead of mirroring content onto a smaller 4:3 view, iPads with M-series processors can display active apps across the spacious 15.6-inch, 16:9 screen. I tested it out with an iPhone 15 Pro Max, and it worked flawlessly. Plus, it’s also compatible with Android devices, so it’s got great flexibility.

When I unboxed the Duex Float, I recorded it because I wanted to capture just how unique and practical the design is. I’ll be sharing my review on YouTube and Instagram reels soon so you can get a closer look.

Here’s what comes with the Duex Float:
  • USB Type-C cable with USB-A to USB-C adapter
  • HDMI cable
  • Magnetic plates
  • Adhesive stickers

And some standout features:

  • Stacked design
  • Two USB-C ports with pass-through charging
  • One mini HDMI port
  • Built-in kickstand
  • Three different viewing modes

Product Specifications:

  • SKU: 101-1011P01
  • Screen Size: 15.6-inch touchscreen
  • Resolution: 1920 x 1080 pixels
  • Refresh Rate: 60 Hz
  • Brightness: 250 nits (adjustable)
  • Dimensions: 14.2" x 9.1" x 0.87"

For me, the Duex Float is a total winner, especially for anyone needing a larger screen on the go without much desk space. The HDMI and USB-C ports make it simple to connect to almost anything, and the pass-through charging is a huge plus! Its aluminum alloy frame is both durable and lightweight, which I really appreciate. The stand and monitor are sturdy enough that I don’t worry about it tipping over.

Now, it’s a bit heavier than my laptop, but I can still throw it into my bag for a quick cafe visit and travel with it. But it folds up perfectly, with the screen facing inward for protection. This screen has truly improved my remote work setup, saving me from neck strain and making my workflow smoother. And honestly, it’s making me look forward to work even more—it’s just fun to use!

If you haven’t tried the Duex yet, I highly recommend giving it a shot. I’m sure you won’t regret adding it to your office setup. Plus, they’re offering a discount code: HAPPY20 for 20% off. This product’s durability is unmatched, and it opens and closes with zero noise. Everything about it is high quality.






While walking around my neighborhood, I enjoy looking at plants. I enjoy taking photos of them because of how beautiful they are. I have frequently observed this plant and eventually captured a photo of it, which I then decided to share. The name of this plant is Fireweed (Chamerion angustifolia). I would describe it as a tall, beautiful plant with its vivid magenta-pink flowers that bloom. In fall, the foliage turns into a rich burgundy crimson, making it more visually appealing.

The perennial is valuable for pollinators; it serves as a host for moth larvae and attracts a variety of insects. It is beneficial to wildlife but extremely poisonous to horses, cattle, and other livestock. Consumption can lead to stunted growth, liver issues, and even death in severe cases.

People have historically used fireweed for food and medicine. You can eat the young stems and make syrup and jam from the flowers. Also, people have used it medicinally as a salve and for digestive issues. Before using this plant, make sure you consult a verified botanist. Bushcrafters have also used the silky seed hairs as tinder and stuffing.

Fireweed grows in damp soils from calcareous to mildly acidic environments and spreads quickly, especially in fire-cleared areas. It is known as bombweed, rosebay willowherb, and fireweed. It is a resilient plant that enhances natural landscapes. You cannot walk past it without noticing it.









Here are 12 cyber security tips for business travel that you should be aware of before your next trip to ensure the digital security of your business.

Cybersecurity for business travelers is an important topic because traveling for work might expose your company's and clients' data to significant risk. While on the go, your devices may be more vulnerable to scammers or burglars.

With cyber security risks continually growing and rising, it's critical to understand crucial cyber security advice for business travel and how to respond in the event of a cyberattack.

What are the best approaches to achieving digital security for business travel, and what aspects of cyber security should you consider?

What is cyber security?

Cybersecurity refers to the techniques that protect companies and individuals against internet dangers. Cyber dangers include social engineering, phishing, and malware. Cybercriminals may target businesses and attempt to gain unauthorized access to their systems, networks, and devices in order to steal private information or client data for financial benefit.

Cyber security in corporate travel is a major topic. As a business traveler, you are more vulnerable to cyber threats because you work outside of a secure office environment. You have a responsibility to safeguard your devices against cyber threats and ensure the security of your company's and clients' data.

During business travel, the chance of devices becoming infected with malicious software is substantial. This can occur if you connect to an insecure wireless network or use public computers or charging stations.

12 Key Points to Ensure Cybersecurity for Business Travel

Achieving cyber security for corporate travel is not an easy task, but following these 11 pieces of cyber security advice will ensure that you cover the most crucial components.

1. Lock down your devices.

When you are not using your device—whether a laptop, smartphone, or any other type of electronics for work—ensure that an identifying mechanism such as a password, PIN, fingerprint, or facial recognition is required to unlock and access the system.

This can enhance your computer security when traveling and safeguard your devices from theft.

2. Update your passwords.

Are your devices password protected? Good. However, make sure to update your passwords on a frequent basis, especially before and after business trips. Using various passwords during work trips reduces the chance of compromised accounts. Thus, anyone who gains access to your credentials while you're away can't use them afterward.

Avoid reusing passwords across applications, accounts, and devices, and use strong passwords of at least 12 characters, including lowercase, uppercase, digits, and symbols. Using a password generator is a simple method for creating secure passwords that hackers cannot guess. To be particularly secure, use a password manager—a tool that uses powerful encryption—to keep all of your passwords in one place. You'll just need to remember your master password to access the rest.

If you are staying at a property with a safe and wish to utilize it, create a strong code to ensure information security.

3. Enable two-factor authentication.

Two-factor authentication (2FA) adds an additional layer of security to your accounts, providing improved protection against fraudsters.

Two-factor authentication is a security solution that asks you to provide two pieces of identity when logging into your account. First, enter your user credentials, followed by a second piece of authentication information, such as a PIN, token, facial ID, or fingerprint.

Using 2FA improves the security of your online accounts. Even if someone succeeds in obtaining your credentials, they will be unable to gain access without the second factor of authentication. This can help lessen the severity of phishing attempts. If you submit your credentials on a phishing site, the extra layer of security will prevent hackers from accessing your account.

4. Use Wi-Fi and Bluetooth carefully.

WiFi is essential when traveling for work, but it carries the risk of stealing valuable company or client information. A typical cyber security suggestion is to avoid utilizing public networks, particularly ones that lack password protection. If you need to connect to a public network, contact the personnel for the official name and password.

A vital piece of smartphone security advice is to turn off the Wi-Fi capability when not in use, as well as the automatic connection to available Wi-Fi networks. The same goes with Bluetooth. Turn off the feature when not using it to prevent data theft from device connections.

5. Use a VPN.

When working remotely or traveling for business, connect to WiFi via a Virtual Private Network (VPN). A VPN decreases the risk of hackers monitoring your online activities and gaining access to your data and passwords by establishing a more secure connection through encryption. This is especially true—but not exclusively—if you are unable to avoid connecting to a public WiFi network.

You can perform sensitive tasks, like handling bank details and client information, with a VPN, ensuring that no one can intercept the data. It will also allow you to connect to your company's network and continue conducting your regular responsibilities while on the go.

6. Install the antivirus program.

Install and update antivirus software on all your devices, including laptops, smartphones, and tablets. Email attachments or URLs can send malware such as viruses, spyware, ransomware, and Trojans, which an antivirus detects, stops, and defends against.

Regular updates will keep your system up to date with the most modern virus safeguards, protecting you from attacks. However, be aware that antivirus alone will not protect you from all cyber threats.

7. Backup your files to the cloud.

Before going on a business trip, it's a beneficial idea to back up your devices' data to the cloud.

This will keep your data safe and accessible in case you lose any of your devices or run into any technical difficulties during your vacation. You can view your data from any device and location and interact with colleagues via file sharing, thanks to its remote server storage.

It’s been a while since I posted a travel update—or has it really been that long? I’m not so sure. Either way, on October 10, 2024, I found myself ready to explore a part of the city I’d overlooked for too long: the Glasgow City Chambers, right in the heart of George Square.

The building had always intrigued me, so I decided to step inside. A friendly receptionist greeted me and, sensing my curiosity, mentioned that a tour was about to begin. He handed me a pass and invited me to join, a golden opportunity to see the inner workings of this historic building.

Each space showcased architectural splendor that seemed timeless yet perfectly in the bustling city center.

The City Chambers, or the Municipal Buildings, as they’re also known, have been at the heart of Glasgow's government since 1889. Designed to reflect the city’s civic pride, this Category A listed building has served as the headquarters of Glasgow City Council since 1996, standing proudly on George Square’s eastern side, a landmark to locals and visitors alike.

The tour itself was a delight. Our guide had a wonderful sense of humor, mixing fun facts with a genuine passion for Glasgow’s history. It was clear he enjoyed sharing these stories, and his enthusiasm pulled us all in.

As we explored further, I learned how the need for a grand city chamber had been growing for over a century. By the 18th century, the old Glasgow Tolbooth at Glasgow Cross was struggling to keep up with the city’s expanding governance needs. In 1814, the council moved to public buildings near Saltmarket and later, in 1844, to the City and County Buildings between Wilson Street and Ingram Street. 

However, City Architect John Carrick didn't find a suitable, purpose-built location for Glasgow's civic operations until the early 1880s. Carrick ultimately chose George Square’s east side, and the rest is history—one that lives on vividly in the intricate details of this building.

The tour left me with a renewed appreciation for the city and its layered past. The Glasgow City Chambers isn’t just a building; it’s a storyteller, keeping the legacy of Glasgow’s transformation from a bustling town to a proud metropolis alive.









An app for trip planning can help you book business travel quickly; we're all looking for productivity hacks to help us get organized and minimize stress. A business travel software may help you with every aspect of your trip, from keeping track of spending to making a more effective packing list and even planning your itinerary.

Finding a useful corporate travel app among the many options available might be a challenge. Have no fear; we have compiled a list of the eight best apps (with some extra advice for business trips) to get you started.

How can I use an app for business travel?

What exactly does it mean to have a corporate travel app, and what can these apps do? Travel applications, accessible on desktop computers or mobile devices, simplify the process of vacation planning. Discover and reserve flights, hotels, and car rentals, as well as arrange your schedule, with the help of common travel applications. You can also locate meeting spaces and keep tabs on spending with apps designed specifically for businesses.

Best 8 tools for business trips

These apps make it simple to implement all of our business travel advice, making planning hassle-free.

1. Hopper: The most accurate price-matching forecasting tool
Nothing is more frustrating than making a flight reservation and then seeing that the price has lowered a week later. Get the most out of your appointments by timing them with Hopper. In order to foretell how much flights and hotels will cost in the near future, the app's algorithm daily analyzes billions of prices. Afterwards, the app will inform you about the optimal time to book, based on the projected lowest prices. It is also a reliable choice because of its remarkable 95% accuracy rate.

2. Splitwise: The Most Effective Method for Handling Joint Expenses
Deciding who will pay for what on a group business trip can be a real pain, especially if everyone is working off of a set per diem. Splitwise makes it easy to calculate and distribute group spending. In real time, all app users can input expenses by specifying the nature of the expenditure (e.g., food, lodging, and transportation) and the people involved. Splitwise breaks down your business travel costs per person so you can submit your receipts and get your money back faster.

3. TripIt: This platform is highly rated for trips that involve multiple locations
There is more to corporate travel planning than just going from A to B. Planning a trip that includes more than one location can be a hassle; an app can help you keep track of all your details. To the rescue comes TripIt, an all-in-one solution for trip confirmations and itineraries. You can access and edit your online calendar without leaving your phone or tablet because it syncs automatically. You won't miss a beat on any part of your trip thanks to TripIt's alerts.
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