I’m not just talking about jeans. I love exploring denim in different forms—like dresses or waistcoats—and this outfit is no exception. I recently got this Blue Loose Casual Pocket Button-Up Round Neck Sleeveless Waisted Vest and Wide-Leg Pants Denim Two-Piece Set from Know Fashion Style.
What I immediately loved about this two-piece denim waistcoat and flare trousers is how effortlessly it transformed with heels. I added a pair of heels, and voilà! The look instantly upgraded from office casual to polished and formal—perfect for a professional meeting. You know what I mean, right?
The material feels lovely on the skin—soft, breathable, and just the right weight for denim. However, I did notice a strong chemical odor when I first unpacked it. It could be from anti-pest treatments, dyes, or even formaldehyde (which some manufacturers use to prevent shrinkage). I’m not a fabric expert, but whatever it was, the smell was quite strong.
Pro tip: Always wash new clothes before wearing them, no matter where you buy them—even if they’re sealed in a package. Some chemicals are odorless, so it’s just better for your skin and health.
That being said, I genuinely loved everything else about the outfit. The design is thoughtful, and I think I styled it pretty well if I do say so myself!
- The Color: The blue is vibrant and pairs beautifully with neutrals or pops of color.
- The Fit: It felt like it was made for me. The waist fit perfectly—not too tight, just right—and the overall look was so comfortable.
- The Buttons: The button pattern added symmetry and elegance, giving the outfit a feminine touch.
- The Flare: The wide-leg pants added drama to the look while keeping it office-appropriate.
I couldn’t sleep last night because I slept in the afternoon, and let’s be real—whenever I nap during the day, I struggle to sleep at night. So, here I am, writing this post at 4:01 AM. I tried distracting myself by watching a show, but here’s the thing: if I feel sleepy, I’ll usually just knock out. But this time, I wasn’t sleepy at all, and I started worrying because I had work in the morning.
I thought maybe snacking on some cashew nuts would help, so I headed to the kitchen. But as I walked, I caught myself worrying about not being able to sleep again, even though I knew exactly why I couldn’t sleep. Then it hit me—why am I worrying? Worrying wasn’t going to fix anything; it was just making me more stressed.
So, I decided to let it go. I drank some water, opened a window for some fresh air, lay back on my bed, and wrote this post. I told myself, “You know what? I can’t sleep because I already napped in the afternoon. No big deal. Let me just enjoy this show.” And guess what? Once I stopped stressing about it, I started feeling sleepy.
Here’s what I realized: sometimes, things don’t go the way we plan—whether it’s little things or big things. And when we’re so used to things going a certain way, it’s easy to worry when they don’t. But what does worrying really do? It doesn’t solve the problem; it just adds to the stress.
If you’re going through something right now, ask yourself: why let worry take over your whole mood or day? Instead, do something that makes you happy. Take a walk, grab your favorite treat, pray, or go see something interesting. Distract yourself with something positive. There’s a saying in Nigeria: “Wahala no dey finish, make you try dey enjoy life.” It means troubles and worries never end, so we need to make an effort to enjoy life in the meantime.
Provand’s Lordship is said to be the oldest house in Scotland, dating back to 1471! It’s had a recent £1.6 million restoration, though, to be honest, the renovations don’t exactly give off that ‘£1.6 million’ vibe, it gives way less. But that’s okay! The house is solid, built to last through centuries. Some of these old buildings are actually sturdier than many modern structures. Plus, Provand’s Lordship is one of only four surviving medieval buildings in Glasgow, so it’s a true piece of history! The nearby Cathedral, also the oldest in Glasgow, holds the crown as the city’s oldest building.
The house was originally constructed by Andrew Muirhead, the Bishop of Glasgow, as part of St Nicholas's Hospital in 1471. The ‘front’ of the house probably faced west, and the area where St Mungo Museum now stands used to be part of the grand Bishop's Castle, which was the center of medieval Glasgow.
Although the house may have been built for the Master of the hospital, it later became part of the accommodation for the 32 canons of Glasgow Cathedral. Each canon was tied to a specific area of the city, known as a prebend. Fast forward to the 1800s, and it’s said to have been home to a canon supported by income from the Prebend of Barlanark.
One thing to note is that to preserve the original oak floor beams, some false floors were added to the upper levels. This does change the dimensions of the rooms and can make the fireplaces look a bit off, but it’s all part of making sure the building lasts for future generations.
Oh, and don’t miss the lovely St Nicholas Garden out back! It’s a peaceful little spot, perfect for a moment of reflection.
In my opinion, the best time to visit is during the summer, when the weather in Glasgow is typically milder, and you can enjoy the garden in full bloom. However, I must say it was quite warm inside during my visit, especially towards the end. The building traps heat, making it feel a bit stuffy, but the rich history inside more than makes up for it!
But here’s the thing—I have to admit, I’m a bit claustrophobic, and the ground floor gave me some of those ‘close quarters’ vibes at first. I felt a bit off, but after a moment, I got over it. The history in that building is so captivating.
If you’re headed there, the address is 3 Castle Street, Glasgow, G4 0RB. Enjoy!
It is appalling, infuriating, and beyond disgusting to hear about acts of cruelty like those committed at the Henrico Doctors’ Hospital NICU. How can anyone look at a newborn—fragile, innocent, and utterly dependent—and cause deliberate harm? And for what reason? The thought is chilling. These are infants we’re talking about—babies. The very notion that someone in a position of trust, like a nurse, could be so depraved is both heartbreaking and infuriating.
For those who do not know, the NICU, or Neonatal Intensive Care Unit, is a specialized area in a hospital dedicated to caring for newborn babies who require extra medical attention.
Erin Elizabeth Ann Strotman, a nurse arrested for allegedly causing fractures and injuries to NICU babies, has shaken me to my core. The fact that this is even a possibility shows the depth of the systemic rot within certain parts of the healthcare system. And yes, I’m going to say it—there’s a racial element here that we cannot ignore. When I hear stories like this, I cannot help but wonder about the role that racism plays. Racism isn’t just hateful words or discriminatory policies; it’s baked into the very fabric of systems that allow individuals to harm the most vulnerable without facing immediate accountability.
There’s a long history here. My grandmother always said that racism hasn’t decreased—it’s just that laws make it harder to act on openly. But give a white person the opportunity, and their true colors will show. Stories like this are a haunting reminder of that truth. If a white nurse can allegedly harm Black newborns, targeting them deliberately, what does that say about the depths of her cruelty? About the system that enabled her? About the unchecked biases that fester behind the smiles of people claiming, "I have Black friends"?
Let me be clear: having friends of another race doesn’t absolve anyone of prejudice. True decency is not about performing kindness; it’s about seeing every person as fully human, equal in worth and dignity. And when stories like this surface, it becomes clear that many people still fail this basic test of humanity.
It’s also important to note that this isn’t an isolated incident—it’s part of a larger pattern. The health system, like the police force, is supposed to protect and serve. Yet, we see time and time again how some individuals within these systems weaponize their positions against Black people. Babies in a NICU! Could there be a more vulnerable group? And what does it say about a society where such an atrocity can occur, not once, but repeatedly?
Before you begin reading this post, please know that I have seen all the Christmas wishes from 2024, and I thoroughly enjoyed reading all the New Year's messages. Yasssss, I love the energy—you all are amazing! Happy New Year to everyone, and thank you so much. "2025; let's go.
I visit a lot of blogs, and I happen to have a really good memory when it comes to recognizing blogs I’ve visited. When I visit a blog, I aim to understand the writer. I take the time to read the article or post and comment accordingly. However, I’ve noticed that some bloggers and readers leave comments without even reading the post. Comments like “Nice one,” “Cool post,” “Good post,” or “I like this” don’t add any meaningful contribution to the conversation.
Additionally, I’ve observed that people who leave such off-topic comments often repeat the same words or phrases across multiple blogs. This practice not only damages the reputation of their blog but also negatively affects their traffic, as Google begins to flag such comments as spam. On top of that, others might return the favor by commenting the same way on their blog without truly engaging, making the article feel irrelevant. Moderation-enabled blogs are likely to flag these repetitive comments as spam. This happens because the person isn’t engaging meaningfully but is instead leaving comments purely for self-promotion.
In my opinion, such behavior shows a lack of understanding of what it means to build a blogging and reading community, gain organic readers, or contribute thoughtfully to a conversation. Website owners will not publish every comment you make, especially if they notice that you are consistently leaving superficial comments on their articles, which they've meticulously crafted for others to read, learn, engage with, or enjoy.
I understand that finding the right words isn’t always easy, but when every comment a website gets from you is simply “Good post,” it becomes clear that your engagement isn’t genuine. Do you know it’s better not to comment at all than to fail to contribute meaningfully?
People write in different languages, which makes us all unique. Personally, I enjoy reading articles in various languages, not just those written in English. I understand that if English is not your first language and you read an article in English (perhaps by translating it), you might find it difficult to express your thoughts when commenting. As a result, people often leave very short comments, such as "Good article."
Here’s my suggestion: instead of leaving a short or generic comment, consider commenting in the language you are most comfortable with. The writer can translate your comment and reply accordingly. This approach highlights our diversity while ensuring that everyone can express themselves fully.
Translating articles allows readers to understand the content and engage by commenting in their own language. In turn, the writer can translate these comments and respond thoughtfully.
Never stop expressing yourself—always share your thoughts, no matter where you’re from, who you are, or what language you speak. We don’t have to speak the same language, as translation tools can bridge the gap.
For website owners, I recommend adding a translation feature to your site to help readers. If you’re using Blogger, a translation widget is already available, but you need to add it manually to your blog.
Here’s how to add the "Offer Translator" widget:
- Log in to your Blogger account.
- Go to the Layout section.
- Click Add a Gadget where you want the translator to appear.
- Search for the Google Translate widget or a similar tool.
- Select it, configure the settings, and click Save.
- Refresh your blog to ensure the widget is visible and working properly.
Adding this feature will make your blog more inclusive and accessible to readers from all over the world.
For those wondering, "Is a blog a website?"—here’s a quick clarification for knowledge’s sake. A blog is a specific type of website that primarily features content in the form of posts, often displayed in reverse chronological order (newest first). So yes, a blog is a website!
There are numerous benefits to reading other blogs that go beyond simply gaining engagement. The knowledge you gain from reading blogs often comes from firsthand experiences, broken down step-by-step, making it relatable and personal. Such insights are valuable and worth your time.
Of course, mistakes are allowed; everyone slips up now and then when contributing to an online conversation. However, making it a habit to leave the same repetitive or off-topic comments on every site you visit—or comments that don’t contribute to the discussion—is, in my opinion, wrong.Did you know that your blog receives visits from more than just fellow bloggers? Upon examining your blog's monthly traffic, you'll observe a gradual increase in your overall traffic, which accumulates over time due to these interactions. This reinforces the importance of meaningful contributions.
Personally, if I publish an article and a visitor leaves an off-topic comment or something like “Cool,” I don’t publish such comments. It’s better to stay silent than to offer shallow remarks that add no value.
Whenever I publish an article and seek feedback from readers, I strive to express myself clearly, using simple language and keeping the article concise. However, I’ve noticed an intriguing pattern: the tone and length of the first and second comments often set the stage for the rest.
Here’s what I mean: if the first commenter leaves a short, generic comment like “Cool blog post,” others tend to follow suit with similarly brief remarks. On the other hand, when the initial comment is thoughtful and detailed, subsequent comments are often more engaging and substantive.
I don't think you should publish a short, meaningless first comment on your article. Instead, focus on approving comments that enrich the discussion—whether they agree or disagree with your perspective. Thoughtful comments not only add value to your article but also encourage others to engage more meaningfully.
- Reputation Damage:
- Search Engine Penalties:
- Loss of Audience Engagement:
- Increased Moderation Workload:
- Lower Reader Trust:
- Loss of Opportunities and Reduced profitability.