It’s just two days to Christmas, and guess what? I’m not working on Christmas Day!
I’ve been thinking about writing a Christmas post because I can’t end this year without thanking everyone who has been reading, commenting, and supporting my blog. Writing and connecting with all of you through my thoughts and feelings about life has truly been one of my favorite activities this year.
A few days ago, my friend Ebube called and mentioned that she’d be coming to Glasgow for a day trip with Yinka. They planned to leave the next day, and it got me thinking about how every year, since moving to the UK during the Christmas period, I’ve had the chance to meet up with Ebube. Do you remember my Christmas trip to Edinburgh with Ebube? Well, we’re doing it again this year, but this time, it’s just a quick day trip before Christmas.
Yesterday, being Sunday, Yinka arrived on time as planned. She used FlixBus, and it didn’t disappoint this time. Unlike the first time I used it to travel to Aberdeen for her graduation, the delay at the station caused me to arrive late. Ebube, on the other hand, had a bit of a hectic journey. Her flight from Cork to Glasgow circled above the city for about 20–30 minutes because of strong winds, and they eventually decided to land at Edinburgh Airport instead. From there, she took a bus to Glasgow.
Once we picked her up from Glasgow airport, she dropped off her things at the hotel, changed her outfit, and we headed to the city center. We went to a lounge, relaxed, and caught up with each other.
They are both traveling back today; I really appreciate their presence. We had a wonderful time, and it was a lovely Christmas visit. They did mention that Glasgow didn’t seem to have much of a Christmas vibe or many lights, which I hadn’t noticed until they pointed it out. I joked that maybe the city was broke, and we all laughed about it. I wish them a safe journey back.
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Many bloggers struggle to drive traffic to their blogs, and one common mistake I've noticed while visiting many new blogs through their Google profiles is leaving outdated links on their profiles. Ever since Google shut down Google+, which I consider one of Google's biggest missteps, this issue has become more common. Google+ was a fantastic platform for connecting bloggers, sharing blog posts, and resolving blogging challenges, thanks to the wealth of information shared there. Now, without Google+, you can no longer view a blogger's profile directly without clicking on their Google account or visiting their blog URL. Unfortunately, many bloggers still have outdated, nonfunctional blogs linked to their profiles, leading to an increase in bounce rate.
1. Remove Non-Functional Links From Your Google Profile
Go through your Google profile and remove links to old or inactive blogs. Only leave links to blogs that are active and regularly updated.
2. Prioritize Updated Blogs
What is Bounce Rate?
I’ve explained this in a previous post, but here’s a quick recap: bounce rate refers to the percentage of single-page visits on your website, where a visitor leaves without interacting further. It’s calculated by dividing the number of single-page visits by the total visits and then representing that as a percentage. A high bounce rate often indicates that visitors are not engaging with your content.
The Problem
When a visitor clicks on your Google profile and finds multiple links, they might accidentally click on one of your outdated blogs. When they realize the blog is inactive, they often close your profile altogether, without checking other links. Even if they do go back and click on an active link, their initial disappointment may lead to spending less time reading your content, which can still contribute to a higher bounce rate.
How to Fix This Issue1. Remove Non-Functional Links From Your Google Profile
Go through your Google profile and remove links to old or inactive blogs. Only leave links to blogs that are active and regularly updated.
2. Prioritize Updated Blogs
If you manage multiple blogs, make sure the most frequently updated blog appears as the first link on your profile.
3. Include Post Dates
3. Include Post Dates
Display the date on each of your blog posts. This helps visitors see that your blog is active and that the content is current.
While I was watching a reality TV show about a family who lives and raises their children in the bush, I was struck by the profound implications of their story. This family had built their life in the bush, far from the conveniences and demands of modern society. However, the government burned down their home located on public land, forcing them to relocate. Determined to continue their way of life, they purchased land deep in the forest in Alaska—a remote and inexpensive location—and began rebuilding. But the challenges didn’t end there: they had to endure long drives and build a new cabin just to maintain their lifestyle.
Why am I writing about this? Because their experience reflects a broader issue: the way governments and modern societies treat people who choose to live differently. Across the world, there are indigenous tribes and isolated communities who have been “discovered” by tourists, explorers, scientists, or even random adventurers. Once these groups are identified, governments often step in, claiming they need to introduce modernization, enforce regulations, or teach these people a “better” way of life. This paternalistic approach strips individuals and communities of their autonomy and disregards their unique cultures, traditions, and choices.
In my opinion, if we want to live in a world where human rights truly prevail, then people must be allowed to live the way they choose—whether or not we agree with their way of life. As long as they are not harming others, their choices should be respected. I’ve seen reality shows and documentaries from countries like the United States, Canada, and others, where indigenous tribes and remote communities are filmed without consent, their lives laid bare for public consumption. These invasions of privacy are not just disrespectful; they’re exploitative. Forcing these communities into the global spotlight, altering their way of life, or making them adapt to systems they never asked for is a gross violation of their freedom.
Some families and individuals deliberately reject the conventional trappings of modern society. They do not want to pay electricity bills, take on car or house loans, or be beholden to government systems. They don’t want to live a life of perpetual debt or adhere to societal expectations like attending formal schools or holding steady jobs. Instead, they prioritize simplicity, self-reliance, and connection with nature. Not everyone wants to use cell phones or drink contaminated tap water; some people crave fresh water, prefer planting their own food, and living sustainably. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Forcing them to conform to a system—a system often plagued by corruption, inequality, and coercion—is deeply unjust.
Have you taken the time to reflect on the year from its beginning to its near conclusion? I was at home when I had a deep reflection on Thanksgiving Day. God reminded me of all he has done for me this year, and I just started praising and worshiping him. God has guided every aspect of my life this year. God gave me peace, taught me patience, and shifted my heart from things that added no value to my life—and that didn't point me towards heaven. God provided me with a path to follow, which I will discuss in more detail soon, but overall, my heart is overflowing with joy. I want to thank God that I am among the living, and I am healthy enough to move around and do things. I want to thank God for keeping my parents alive, and I know that my prayer for them for 120 years will come true. I will look back on this post and say, "Yes, indeed, God is great."
Every day should be Thanksgiving. Happy Thanksgiving. What are you thankful for?
The holiday season has arrived, bringing with it a multitude of concerns for those balancing work and holiday preparations. Many are feeling the pressure of achieving their year-end goals, yet it is essential to prioritize health amidst these stresses.
We all face stress in our lives, including traffic, monthly bills, health worries, and relationship issues. Persistent worry, due to the inextricable link between the mind and body, can negatively affect health and contribute to a variety of illnesses.
While you cannot eliminate all kinds of stress, you can learn how to manage stress and develop resilience—the ability to recover from adversity.
Some people seem to enjoy better and healthier lives because they are inherently upbeat and cheerful. These people frequently transform obstacles and possible setbacks into chances and achievements. This way of thinking is consistent with the idea of "antifragility," which is the capacity to flourish and become more resilient in the face of adversity and stress. According to this perspective, stress is a necessary part of life, and developing antifragility enables people to leverage their strengths to overcome obstacles.
While you cannot eliminate all kinds of stress, you can learn how to manage stress and develop resilience—the ability to recover from adversity.
Some people seem to enjoy better and healthier lives because they are inherently upbeat and cheerful. These people frequently transform obstacles and possible setbacks into chances and achievements. This way of thinking is consistent with the idea of "antifragility," which is the capacity to flourish and become more resilient in the face of adversity and stress. According to this perspective, stress is a necessary part of life, and developing antifragility enables people to leverage their strengths to overcome obstacles.
Happy New Month! Welcome to the month of December. I am so excited about ending the year with clarity, God's leading, success, and vision through His guidance.
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The Impact of Teenage Pregnancy on Parents
Teenage pregnancy is one of the biggest fears for many parents. Growing up in a large Christian family instilled in us the belief that marriage is honorable, a belief that continues to resonate with me today. The truth is, teenage pregnancy doesn't just affect the teenager involved; it often shapes their lives in challenging ways, leading to a path filled with struggle and stress. While some young parents rise above their circumstances with stories of triumph, others find themselves wishing they had never ventured down that path.
It's crucial to guide and watch over our teens, but we often overlook a significant aspect: the impact on parents when their child either becomes pregnant or is involved in a teenage pregnancy. We rarely discuss the challenges faced by parents whose children are involved in teenage pregnancy. I remember growing up and witnessing a few girls in my community get pregnant. My dad was terrified and warned me to be careful. I could see the fear in his eyes and hear it in his trembling voice, especially since these were girls I grew up with, talked to, and attended Bible study with. His concern came straight from the heart. Thankfully, I heeded his advice, but the experience left me thinking deeply about how much fear and anxiety parents endure.
Often, when teenage pregnancy happens, the focus tends to be on the teenager's future and the societal reactions, but we forget about the parents' pain and heartbreak. Many parents feel judged, ashamed, and even ostracized by their communities. You might say, "Well, why should they care about what society thinks?" But the truth is, as humans, we're naturally conscious of how we're perceived by others. We want to present our best selves to the world, and so do our parents.
When parents react emotionally to the news of a teenage pregnancy, they are sometimes labeled as harsh or uncaring. I've heard stories of people criticizing their parents for their intense reactions, calling them cruel or unloving. Yet, in many cases, those reactions stem from a place of deep pain and disappointment—not just in their children but also in themselves. Parents often feel like they've failed in their upbringing or that their child didn't listen to their guidance. And while it’s true that not all children will heed their parents' advice, it doesn’t take away from the hurt parents feel when things go awry.
The Emotional Toll on Parents
Teenage pregnancy can affect parents in profound ways, but we seldom acknowledge this. Here are some of the emotional and psychological impacts it can have on them:
1. Broken Trust: Parents often feel a deep sense of betrayal, which can affect their trust in their other children as well.
2. Living in Fear: There's a constant worry that the same situation might happen again, either with the same child or with their siblings.
3. Increased Anger: The stress and fear can make them more irritable and prone to outbursts.
4. Shame and guilt: Many parents feel ashamed among their peers and carry a heavy burden of guilt, questioning where they went wrong.
5. Judgment in Religious Communities: For those in religious settings, especially if they hold a position like a pastor, they might be labeled as careless or even unfit for their role, leading to loss of respect and position.
6. Social Withdrawal: Parents may become withdrawn, keeping to themselves to avoid judgment and uncomfortable questions.
7. Loss of Joy: The disappointment and stress can take away their smiles and rob them of their happiness.
8. Diminished confidence: They might lose confidence in their parenting abilities and question their self-worth.
Let's Not Forget the Parents
These are just a few of the challenges that parents encounter when managing teenage pregnancy within their families. It's easy to blame parents for their harsh reactions, particularly when we see social media posts or videos portraying them as the villains. But it’s important to remember that behind every emotional outburst is often a heart that's breaking, a spirit that's wounded, and a mind that's grappling with shame and unanswered questions.
I didn’t grow up in an environment of lack. I had a wonderful upbringing, surrounded by people who had the same privileges as I did. Yet, my dad was still terrified of the idea of teenage pregnancy. That fear wasn’t about controlling my life but rather about wanting the best for me, free from the struggles he knew such a situation could bring.
We need to extend grace to parents too. Yes, teenagers face challenges when they find themselves in these situations, but let's not overlook the emotional toll it takes on the parents, who are also trying their best in a society that’s quick to judge.
So, the next time you see someone reacting harshly, remember: two wrongs don’t make a right. Compassion goes a long way—for both the teenagers and their parents, who are all just trying to navigate a difficult situation the best way they know how.
What are your thoughts on this? Have you ever seen a situation like this or experienced it firsthand? Let’s talk about it in the comments below. I’d love to hear your stories and perspectives.
Let’s be real—Secret Santa in the office is not everyone’s cup of tea. Personally, I’d rather skip it entirely. There’s always that lingering pressure to pick something “perfect,” and no one needs another mug collecting dust in a cabinet (seriously, let’s retire the mug gifting trend). But if you’re in it and want to make your gift count, here are some safe, practical ideas that are both budget-friendly and actually useful.
Smart, Practical Gift Ideas
Desk Organizers
Everyone loves a tidy workspace. Think small drawer organizers, pen holders, or even cord clips to tame those unruly wires. They’re simple, functional, and won’t break the bank.
Mini Plants
Succulents or air plants are easy to care for and can liven up even the gloomiest desk. Bonus points if they’re low-maintenance—no one wants to babysit a high-maintenance ficus.
Fancy Snacks
Snacks are a crowd-pleaser, but skip the generic stuff. A box of gourmet popcorn, some artisan cookies, or even a curated mix of healthy treats can feel thoughtful without trying too hard.
Tech-Friendly Accessories
If your office is phone-free, go for other practical gadgets like blue-light glasses, a mini desk lamp, or a screen cleaning kit. They’re handy and show you’ve put some thought into the gift.
Notebooks or Planners
A sleek pocket notebook or a minimalist planner? Yes, please. Perfect for jotting down ideas, meeting notes, or just pretending to be organized.
Stress Relievers
A good stress ball, a fun fidget toy, or even a roll-on essential oil blend—these are great for those long workdays when you need to decompress (or survive another meeting).
Reusable Lunch Accessories
Collapsible lunch boxes, reusable cutlery sets, or even eco-friendly silicone food bags—practical, thoughtful, and perfect for anyone who brings their lunch.
Personalized Office Supplies
Customized sticky notes or quirky paperclips are small, affordable, and still show effort. Plus, they’re actually useful.
Keep the budget low, the gift neutral, and the vibe easygoing. Secret Santa should be fun, not an exercise in overthinking. If all else fails? Go for snacks—no one’s ever been mad about getting good snacks.
I personally don’t like heavy makeup, baby hairs, or anything that looks too unnatural. That’s why I’m not a fan of overly curved or pronounced eyebrows. When it comes to holiday looks, I know eye glitter is often a go-to, but I prefer a soft holiday glam—it’s so much better!
A soft holiday glam makeup look gives you a natural, toned-down style that’s perfect for parties, date nights, or even weekend brunch. If you’re aiming for a soft glam look that doesn’t feel heavy, here are some tips:
Skin: Radiant skin is the foundation of any attractive soft glam.
Your skin is a big part of your look, so prepping it is the first step. Start by washing or cleansing your face, especially if your last wash was hours ago. Personally, I like to take a quick shower beforehand to feel fresh and clean, but it’s okay as long as your skin is clean.
Never apply makeup on dry skin—moisturize first! I use the Vitamin C Glow Skin Tonic by Skin Saints, and ever since I started using the Edinburgh Skincare Anti-Aging Face Cream (it’s like skin butter with coconut oil), I’ve noticed my powder blends so much better. I apply the skin butter in moderation, just enough to create a smooth base.
Powder:
Next, I go straight to powder. I use the MAC Studio Fix Powder Plus Foundation in shade NW45. I skip liquid foundation to keep things light and avoid that heavy feel. Pro tip: Apply your powder like you’re shading lightly—it blends better that way.
Brows:
Keep your brows looking natural. After applying powder, my brows tend to look a bit dim, so I use a brown brow pencil to add a subtle tone. Then, I brush my brows to shape them. For a natural soft glow, avoid overdrawing or making your brows too bold.
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Going on a business vacation or bleisure to a different place is an excellent method to liven up your work routine. Whether you work in fashion, banking, manufacturing, or the automotive industry, Europe has fantastic destinations for business visitors.
The following are our top 10 most popular European cities with flourishing commercial sectors, spectacular event venues, and a variety of activities to enjoy during downtime.
Let's look at the top 10 business trip destinations in Europe.
1. London, England.
London is a hub of genius, where Canary Wharf's financial strength meets the creative pulse of Camden and Shoreditch. The UK's massive economic output includes finance, technology, hospitality, and the arts, all of which thrive in London's dynamic environment.
World-class venues such as ExCeL London, The Shard, and Olympia London drive success, while annual events such as the Business Travel Show and Going Global Live promote networking and growth. London metropolis, Heathrow, and Gatwick are the main airports that provide easy access to the metropolis.
In your spare time, visit historic sights such as the Tower of London and Buckingham Palace, see a show in the West End, or take a peaceful Thames-side stroll. As twilight falls, explore the city's diverse culinary scene in Covent Garden before heading to the cobbled lanes of Soho to enjoy London's famous nightlife.
2. Paris, France.
The "City of Love" in the heart of Europe is so captivating that it can even make business travel more exciting. Discover world-class event sites such as the Paris Expo Porte de Versailles and the Maison de la Mutualité, where networking, conferences, and exhibitions are transformed into experiences rather than just work.
Furthermore, Paris features exciting yearly events such as Viva Technology and Paris Retail Week, which connect you with global innovators with compelling stories to tell. Whether you're a seasoned tourist or a first-time visitor, the Charles de Gaulle and Orly airports make it easy to reach this urban retreat.
Beyond business, visit landmarks such as the Eiffel Tower and the Louvre Museum. Whether for business or pleasure, a journey to Paris is incomplete without sampling the local bread, wine, and cheese. Explore the banks of the Seine to find hidden jewels and charming cafés.
3. Berlin, Germany.
The bustling capital of Germany entices business tourists with its distinctive blend of innovation and tradition. As one of Europe's top business towns, it serves as a thriving hub for tech companies and creative sectors. World-class venues such as Messe Berlin make this city an excellent choice for business possibilities and inspiration.
In less than 30 minutes, the Express Train FEX connects the regional airport to Berlin Central Station. It leaves Terminal 1's train station every half hour. Whatever corner of Berlin your business map leads you to, you'll get there easily.
When time allows, immerse yourself in Berlin's rich history, from the remains of the Berlin Wall and the renowned Brandenburg Gate to the cultural refuge of Museum Island. If you have some free time, visit vibrant neighborhoods such as Kreuzberg and Prenzlauer Berg, where Berlin's true soul can be felt.
4. Madrid, Spain.
Madrid is an excellent choice for a work vacation, offering a blend of modernism and tradition that caters to both professional needs and leisure activities. The city features excellent event venues, including IFEMA, Feria de Madrid, and the Palacio Municipal de Congresos, which are suited for conferences of all sizes. Madrid also holds well-known yearly business events, such as the Madrid International Real Estate Exhibition (SIMA) and Madrid Fusión, a global gastronomic conference.
The Spanish capital is a center for a variety of industries, including finance, technology, fashion, and tourism. The Airport Train (Cercanías, Line C-1) connects the airport to important train stations such as Chamartín and Atocha, making it simple for business travelers to reach the city center.
Businesspeople can network and enjoy the city's colorful culture. Outside of work, you can visit historic buildings such as the Royal Palace and the Prado Museum, eat at Michelin-starred restaurants, or relax in the beautiful Retiro Park.
5. Munich, Germany.
Munich, located in southern Germany, is an ideal destination for business travelers. Known for its economic strength and technological innovation, the city offers major events such as EXPO REAL and BAUMA, which are ideal for industry networking and growth. The ICM Munich and Messe München are premier locations for corporations globally.
Munich's Franz Josef Strauss Airport provides easy access, and the city's cultural sector gives plenty to discover. In your spare time, visit Nymphenburg Palace and Marienplatz to soak up some culture. Indulge in Bavarian cuisine and raise a stein at one of Munich's famed beer halls. While many people understand English, learning a few basic German words can be extremely beneficial. Locals frequently appreciate your efforts, even if your German is limited.
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