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Saturday, January 04, 2025

One Commenting Habit Destroying Your Website's Reputation


Before you begin reading this post, please know that I have seen all the Christmas wishes from 2024, and I thoroughly enjoyed reading all the New Year's messages. Yasssss, I love the energy—you all are amazing! Happy New Year to everyone, and thank you so much. "2025; let's go.

I visit a lot of blogs, and I happen to have a really good memory when it comes to recognizing blogs I’ve visited. When I visit a blog, I aim to understand the writer. I take the time to read the article or post and comment accordingly. However, I’ve noticed that some bloggers and readers leave comments without even reading the post. Comments like “Nice one,” “Cool post,” “Good post,” or “I like this” don’t add any meaningful contribution to the conversation.

Additionally, I’ve observed that people who leave such off-topic comments often repeat the same words or phrases across multiple blogs. This practice not only damages the reputation of their blog but also negatively affects their traffic, as Google begins to flag such comments as spam. On top of that, others might return the favor by commenting the same way on their blog without truly engaging, making the article feel irrelevant. Moderation-enabled blogs are likely to flag these repetitive comments as spam. This happens because the person isn’t engaging meaningfully but is instead leaving comments purely for self-promotion.

In my opinion, such behavior shows a lack of understanding of what it means to build a blogging and reading community, gain organic readers, or contribute thoughtfully to a conversation. Website owners will not publish every comment you make, especially if they notice that you are consistently leaving superficial comments on their articles, which they've meticulously crafted for others to read, learn, engage with, or enjoy.

I understand that finding the right words isn’t always easy, but when every comment a website gets from you is simply “Good post,” it becomes clear that your engagement isn’t genuine. Do you know it’s better not to comment at all than to fail to contribute meaningfully?

People write in different languages, which makes us all unique. Personally, I enjoy reading articles in various languages, not just those written in English. I understand that if English is not your first language and you read an article in English (perhaps by translating it), you might find it difficult to express your thoughts when commenting. As a result, people often leave very short comments, such as "Good article."

Here’s my suggestion: instead of leaving a short or generic comment, consider commenting in the language you are most comfortable with. The writer can translate your comment and reply accordingly. This approach highlights our diversity while ensuring that everyone can express themselves fully.

Translating articles allows readers to understand the content and engage by commenting in their own language. In turn, the writer can translate these comments and respond thoughtfully.

Never stop expressing yourself—always share your thoughts, no matter where you’re from, who you are, or what language you speak. We don’t have to speak the same language, as translation tools can bridge the gap.

For website owners, I recommend adding a translation feature to your site to help readers. If you’re using Blogger, a translation widget is already available, but you need to add it manually to your blog.

Here’s how to add the "Offer Translator" widget:

  1. Log in to your Blogger account.
  2. Go to the Layout section.
  3. Click Add a Gadget where you want the translator to appear.
  4. Search for the Google Translate widget or a similar tool.
  5. Select it, configure the settings, and click Save.
  6. Refresh your blog to ensure the widget is visible and working properly.

Adding this feature will make your blog more inclusive and accessible to readers from all over the world.

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Pro Tip: Enable your browser's translation feature to automatically translate websites into your preferred language. This way, whenever you visit a site in another language, it will be instantly translated into a language you understand.

For those wondering, "Is a blog a website?"—here’s a quick clarification for knowledge’s sake. A blog is a specific type of website that primarily features content in the form of posts, often displayed in reverse chronological order (newest first). So yes, a blog is a website!

There are numerous benefits to reading other blogs that go beyond simply gaining engagement. The knowledge you gain from reading blogs often comes from firsthand experiences, broken down step-by-step, making it relatable and personal. Such insights are valuable and worth your time.

Of course, mistakes are allowed; everyone slips up now and then when contributing to an online conversation. However, making it a habit to leave the same repetitive or off-topic comments on every site you visit—or comments that don’t contribute to the discussion—is, in my opinion, wrong.

Did you know that your blog receives visits from more than just fellow bloggers? Upon examining your blog's monthly traffic, you'll observe a gradual increase in your overall traffic, which accumulates over time due to these interactions. This reinforces the importance of meaningful contributions.

Personally, if I publish an article and a visitor leaves an off-topic comment or something like “Cool,” I don’t publish such comments. It’s better to stay silent than to offer shallow remarks that add no value.

Whenever I publish an article and seek feedback from readers, I strive to express myself clearly, using simple language and keeping the article concise. However, I’ve noticed an intriguing pattern: the tone and length of the first and second comments often set the stage for the rest.

Here’s what I mean: if the first commenter leaves a short, generic comment like “Cool blog post,” others tend to follow suit with similarly brief remarks. On the other hand, when the initial comment is thoughtful and detailed, subsequent comments are often more engaging and substantive.

I don't think you should publish a short, meaningless first comment on your article. Instead, focus on approving comments that enrich the discussion—whether they agree or disagree with your perspective. Thoughtful comments not only add value to your article but also encourage others to engage more meaningfully.

 
How Empty Comments Affect a Website
  • Reputation Damage:
Websites that allow shallow or spammy comments might appear unprofessional or poorly moderated, leading visitors to question the quality of the content and the site's credibility.
  • Search Engine Penalties:
Repeated use of generic or empty comments across multiple blogs can trigger Google’s spam filters. This can lower the site's SEO ranking, making it harder for new readers to discover the blog.
  • Loss of Audience Engagement:
Meaningful engagement fosters a sense of community. Generic comments fail to build connections or spark meaningful discussions, which can lead to a decline in returning visitors.
  • Increased Moderation Workload:
Website owners or moderators spend extra time filtering out low-quality comments, which is a resource drain, especially for high-traffic websites.
  • Lower Reader Trust:
Genuine readers might be discouraged from engaging if they see a flood of non-contributive comments, reducing overall interaction quality or product features on their website.
  • Loss of Opportunities and Reduced profitability.
For website owners who collaborate with businesses to share articles aimed at improving brand awareness—such as through link building, guest posting, or general partnerships—off-topic comments can negatively impact your website. When readers leave irrelevant comments that fail to contribute meaningfully to the shared article, it harms the website’s credibility. This lack of meaningful engagement with the content can lead to decreased traffic, diminished trust, and ultimately, reduced profitability.

How Empty Comments Affect Commenters

1. Loss of Credibility:
Repeatedly leaving generic or irrelevant comments can harm a commenter’s reputation. Other readers and bloggers may perceive them as spammy, lazy, or uninterested in genuine engagement and stop publishing their comments.

2. Reduced Networking Opportunities:
Often, meaningful comments provide opportunities for networking with bloggers and other readers. Generic comments fail to establish connections, limiting opportunities to build relationships or collaborations.

3. Risk of Being Marked as Spam:
Search engines and blog moderation tools may flag commenters who leave repetitive or low-value comments as spammers. This can lead to comments being automatically blocked across multiple platforms.

4. Missed Traffic Opportunities:
A thoughtful comment that adds value can attract other readers to click on the commenter’s profile or website link. Off-topic comments rarely encourage such interest, reducing referral traffic.

5. Negative Impact on SEO:
If the comment includes a link to the commenter’s website and it’s flagged as spam, it can lead to penalties for their website, including lower rankings in search engines.

6. Limited Personal Growth:
Engaging meaningfully in discussions can be a learning experience. Leaving shallow comments denies the commenter the opportunity to gain insights and grow intellectually or professionally.

7. Damaged Relationships with Website Owners, Especially Bloggers:
Website owners value authentic engagement. Repeatedly leaving empty or superficial comments can frustrate them and strain the relationship with the commenter, potentially resulting in your profile being blocked.

How to Comment Effectively and Add Value
  • Read the Article Thoroughly:
Take the time to understand the content before commenting. Highlight specific points you found valuable or ask clarifying questions.
  • Add Value:
Share personal insights, experiences, or constructive feedback. For example:Instead of “Nice post,” say: “I enjoyed the section about [specific topic]. It reminded me of [your experience].”
  • Ask Questions:
Encourage a conversation by asking thoughtful, topic-relevant questions. For instance, what inspired you to take this perspective on this topic?
  • Be Unique:
Avoid copying and pasting the same comment on multiple blogs. Tailor your comment to the specific article and its audience.
  • Avoid Self-Promotion:
While it’s fine to link to your website when appropriate, avoid turning your comment into an advertisement. Focus on contributing to the discussion.
  • Use Proper Grammar and Spelling:
Well-written comments are taken more seriously. Proofread your comment before posting to ensure clarity and professionalism.
  • Engage With Other Commenters:
Reply to other readers’ comments to create a sense of community. This can help build relationships and encourage others to check out your blog.
  • Stay on Topic:
Ensure your comment is relevant to the article's content. Off-topic comments are often ignored or deleted.
  • Be Polite and Respectful:
Even when disagreeing, maintain a respectful tone. Constructive debates can enhance your credibility.
  • Follow Blog Guidelines:
Many blogs have specific rules for commenting. Adhere to these guidelines to ensure your comments are welcomed and published.

My draft before the New Year included this topic, so I thought it would be helpful to share it at the start of the year. I hope you enjoyed reading, and I’d love to hear your thoughts on commenting—what are your general thoughts on it? Have you ever had issues with spam comments or experienced someone leaving the same comment multiple times? Let’s hear your experiences in the comment section below!

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  1. This post contained a lot of valuable information. I hope I haven't been one to mindlessly comment with a simple "nice read," though I must admit I probably have done it at times. I strive to personalize my comments to show that I've actually read the content.

    On my blog, I make an effort to respond to each commenter to foster dialogue. This way, I can get to know my readers better, and they can get to know me as well.

    I truly enjoyed the insights shared in the article and I'm always open to improving my blog for the few followers I have. Although I only have 22 followers (I usually get around 200-300 views per post - sometime more. I suspected that most of those views might be from bots. I'm a bit shy about sharing my blog link in comments, so I leave it all in God's hands. I do enjoy leaving comments when I can. While it would be wonderful to have a larger audience to write for, I'm content with what I have.

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    1. Thank you so much for your thoughtful and sincere comment! First, let me just say that your effort to personalize your comments speaks volumes about the kind of blogger you are—genuine, engaged, and caring about fostering real connections. And hey, we’ve all had a “nice read” moment or two—it’s human! The key is that you’re aware of it and strive to add value, which is fantastic.

      About your stats: The fact that you get 200–300 views per post with 22 followers is actually a strong indicator of a well-performing blog! Not all traffic comes from your direct followers. When your blog is online, your posts are indexed by search engines like Google. This means when someone searches for a topic you’ve written about, your post can pop up in search results, bringing in readers who’ve never followed your blog but are interested in what you have to say. So, those views are likely a mix of loyal readers and curious newcomers. 😊

      If you’d like to grow your audience further (and still leave it in God’s hands, of course!), sharing your posts on various platforms can be a great way to expand your reach. Here are six places to consider sharing your articles:

      1. Twitter - Great for concise summaries and reaching communities through hashtags.
      2. Pinterest - Perfect for visually appealing posts and topics like lifestyle, DIY, or recipes.
      3. LinkedIn- Ideal for professional or educational content.
      4. Facebook Groups- Many niche groups allow for content sharing, as long as it’s relevant.
      5. Medium - Republish your content or share original pieces there to access a wider audience.
      6. Reddit - Participate in subreddits that align with your blog’s topic, but engage genuinely!

      Lastly, being shy about sharing your blog link in comments is understandable, but remember, there’s a balance between spammy self-promotion and leaving a thoughtful comment with your link included. If your comment adds value, people won’t mind seeing your blog link—it feels like a natural extension of the conversation.

      You’re doing amazing, and your content clearly resonates with readers. Keep writing from the heart! ❤️

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  2. yo siempre trato de leer a los blog que comento . Y a pesar de que a veces no me len siempre me gusta recibir un comentario por que la persona por lo menos se paso por el blog. Soy muy parca en lo que digo pero siempre trato de leer . A veces desanima pero creo que exageras un poco en los efectos del cometario. Te mando un b so.

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    1. Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I love that you make the effort to truly read the blogs you comment on—that’s what really builds authentic connections. I understand how it can feel discouraging when the engagement isn’t always reciprocated, but even brief comments show someone stopped by and appreciated the content. As for the effects of comments, maybe I went a bit overboard about not publishing some comments, but they do have value beyond just the conversation. They can boost visibility through search engines and encourage others to engage or visit your blog. It’s about authenticity, and your sparing, thoughtful comments clearly reflect that! Keep up the great work!

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  3. Condivido a pieno, il tuo pensiero sull'argomento che hai preso in considerazione, e credo che alcune persone non si rendano conto, di quanto perdano di credibilità, con il loro atteggiamento che denota superficialità.
    Buona domenica e un caro saluto

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    1. Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment! You're absolutely right — many don't realize that shallow or generic comments can harm their credibility. It's important to engage authentically and with depth, especially if you want to build genuine connections and maintain a strong online reputation. I appreciate your perspective!

      Wishing you a wonderful Sunday as well, and thank you again for your warm words!

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  4. Good morning Melody, :)
    After blogging for almost 13 years I know the bloggers who can't take the time or trouble to read my post, and who write a short comment that bares no resemblance to what I have written. I also know the ones who's English is perhaps limited and therefore they also just write "lovely photos" without any reference to what I have written in my introduction. It's disappointing, but thankfully they are in the minority. When I receive a kind and thoughtful comment it is a way of getting to know a person and forming lasting friendships which I have done over the years. As you point out that is how it should be. :)Thank you Melody for being the kind of person who comments on what I write in a comprehensive and engaging way. not only on my blog but on others.

    Your article is well written and I appreciate the valid points you raised, which are all well founded and I hope it makes a difference to those who practice this disrespectful way of
    commenting, as it is just as beneficial to "their" blogs.
    Best Wishes
    All the best
    Sonjia.

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    1. Good evening Sonjia!

      First of all, thank you so much for your kind words — I truly appreciate it! And wow, 13 years of blogging! That’s incredible. You’ve certainly seen a lot in that time, and I can completely relate to your experience with those shallow comments. It's such a shame when people don’t put the effort into truly engaging, especially when a thoughtful comment can lead to deeper connections and more meaningful conversations.

      I’m so glad the article resonated with you. You’re absolutely right that commenting thoughtfully not only benefits the blog owner but also helps the commenter build lasting relationships. I believe it’s those genuine exchanges that make blogging such a rewarding experience.

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  5. Να ένα ζήτημα, που απασχολεί κάθε μπλόγκερ, αγαπητή Μέλοντι.
    Κάθε ανάρτηση έχει κόπο για να γραφτεί και προηγείται κάποια σπουδή πάνω στο θέμα, που πραγματεύεται. Συνήθως αυτή είναι η σωστή πρακτική ενός μπλόγκερ.
    Άρα κάποια τυπικά σχόλια δεν είναι ευχάριστα.
    Χτίζουμε μια ουσιαστική αλληλεπίδραση μεταξύ μας, αγαπητή φίλη και νομίζω αυτό είναι το σωστό.
    Καλή χρονιά και πάλι να ευχηθώ.

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    1. You’re absolutely right — each blog post is an investment of time, effort, and research, and when we share our work, we hope for meaningful interaction in return. A comment that’s too generic or disconnected from the post can feel a bit deflating, especially when you’ve put in the work to create something valuable. It’s those deeper, more personal comments that truly honor the effort behind the content. Wishing you a Happy New Year once again!

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  6. That's an interesting approach, dear Melody. I agree with you completely. It's also rude to leave such an inconsequential comment. Don't you think so? I strongly believe that it is much more sustainable to leave an "appropriate" comment under a blog post.

    I wish you a Happy New Year!

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    1. I completely agree with you—leaving an appropriate, meaningful comment adds value both for the blogger and the community. Inconsequential comments often don't foster genuine conversation or engagement, which is what really helps build a strong online reputation. Wishing you a Happy New Year as well!

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  7. Great article. I've been in the blog world for a long time. After years, it's easy to lose the will to read everything and comment wisely. Thank you.

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    1. I completely understand where you're coming from! After years of blogging, it can definitely feel like a challenge to maintain that same level of engagement and enthusiasm. However, even a few thoughtful comments here and there can make a huge difference in building relationships and keeping the community active. Thanks for sharing your experience!

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  8. Hello. I have noticed one thing. Those of us whose mother tongue is not English or whose language skills are otherwise weak have difficulties. And Google Translate sometimes makes really strange translations. Many people come up with easy answers. A very happy new year.

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    1. You're absolutely right, and thank you for highlighting that important point. Language barriers can definitely make commenting more challenging, especially when relying on tools like Google Translate. It’s understandable that sometimes translations don’t come out perfectly, which can lead to awkward or misinterpreted comments. The key is to keep engaging and improving with time, and people are often more understanding than we think. I appreciate you pointing that out. We all come from different linguistic backgrounds, and that diversity is what makes us unique. Personally, I love reading articles in various languages—not just English. I understand that when English isn’t your first language, commenting in English can feel challenging, especially if you're using translation tools. This often leads to short, generic comments like "Good article."

      Here’s my suggestion: instead of limiting yourself to brief comments, try leaving your thoughts in the language you're most comfortable with. The writer can translate your comment and reply accordingly. This way, we celebrate our linguistic diversity while allowing everyone to fully express themselves.

      Translation tools help bridge language gaps, making it easier to engage, no matter the language. So, never hesitate to share your thoughts—language is no barrier to meaningful conversation. Wishing you a very Happy New Year as well!

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    2. Kiitos sinulle oikein hyvästä neuvosta.

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  9. Thank you very much for this post. You included everything I observe and, I must admit, irritates me.
    There are many comments like "it looks beautiful" or "I would love to eat it" and I really don't know how to react.
    I try to comment constructively and if I don't know something, I don't comment.
    I agree with your comments because I have the same observations.
    Warm regards :)

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    1. Thank you for your kind words, and I completely understand your frustration. Comments like "it looks beautiful" or "I would love to eat it" can often feel empty, especially when you're looking for more thoughtful engagement. It’s great that you focus on leaving constructive comments—that’s how we truly build meaningful conversations and communities. It’s also perfectly fine to stay silent when you don’t have anything valuable to add. Your approach is definitely a smart one! I'm glad we're on the same page with these observations.

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  10. Dear Melody,
    you speak from my heart in many ways. I now know most of my readers who comment and know that there are some who really read the articles and make appropriate comments, some who just look at the pictures (which doesn't surprise me, as my blog is in German and many of my readers are English-speaking - not all of them manage to find or use the translate button ;-)) Some comments are superficial, but they have at least "taken a look" at my post, some readers are only interested in fashion, others, for example, only in my nature photos and nature reports - and here and there are also the comments you mentioned, such as "cool post" or similar. In the latter case, I think it really is either spam or an "invitation" to visit the blog without having to read my blog post...
    From the very beginning, I noticed that your comments were very appreciative, and I really appreciate that too - thank you very much for that!
    I wish you and your loved ones a healthy, peaceful and happy New Year!
    ✨🍀🐞🍀❣️🌟❣️🍀🐞🍀✨
    Best wishes, Traude
    https://rostrose.blogspot.com/2025/01/ruckblick-2024-teil-1-weihnachten-und-2.html

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    1. Thank you for sharing your insights! It’s interesting to hear how different types of readers engage with your content, and I can imagine how the variety of comments can sometimes be a bit overwhelming. It’s true that some comments may just be surface-level, but as you said, it’s still a sign that people are at least engaging in some way. Spammy or superficial comments are always a bit tricky to navigate, but I agree—true engagement always stands out. I’m glad you’ve found my comments to be appreciative! It’s always a pleasure to share genuine thoughts when I enjoy reading someone’s work. Wishing you a peaceful, joyful, and prosperous New Year as well!

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  11. I don't see it anymore but a few years ago there were people who would leave the same comment many times under the same post to make it ... I don't really know... more visible? It used to make me furious.

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    1. I can totally understand your frustration with that! It’s such an annoying tactic, and it doesn't add any real value to the conversation. Repeated comments just to gain visibility often come off as spammy and can make the community feel less genuine. Thankfully, moderation tools today help keep that in check, so it’s easier to maintain quality engagement. It’s always better to have meaningful interactions, even if they're fewer in number!

      I had a similar experience once when I took a break from blogging and didn’t check my comments. Without moderation tools in place, I ended up with a flood of spam comments—from dating site links to fraudulent comments claiming they read the future. It got really bad! That’s when I learned the hard way how important it is to manage comments carefully.

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  12. Melody, very interesting is your post. I learned many interesting things about blogs. I will try to use the knowledge from your text.
    Melody, I wish you a good Epiphany Day!

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    1. I’m so glad you found the post helpful and that you learned something new! It’s always great to hear that the tips can be put to good use. Best of luck with your blogging, and may it bring you lots of success. Wishing you a joyful Epiphany Day!

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  13. É uma opinião que respeito. Considero que nem todos têm facilidade em comentar. Deixar uma palavra ou duas não quer dizer que não se leu a postagem. Mas uma coisa é verdadeira: Essa pessoa passou e visitou o blogue. Claro que existe quem tenha bons dotes para comentar quase ponto por ponto e outros - COMO EU POR EXEMPLO - não possuo, infelizmente, esses dotes. Mas pronto. É o que é.
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    Feliz domingo
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    1. I understand your perspective—it’s true that not every post invites an easy or clear comment, and that’s okay. Everyone has different styles and abilities when it comes to engaging with content, and sometimes a short or simple comment can still convey genuine appreciation. Not every comment needs to be a deep analysis or a detailed response. What's important is that the engagement is honest and reflective of the reader's experience with the post.

      It’s also completely understandable that some people may feel less confident about commenting, especially if they don’t feel they have the same skills or knowledge to break things down in a point-by-point way. What matters is the effort to connect, and sometimes just leaving a few words of appreciation can be enough to let the author know you’ve engaged with their work.

      That said, I don’t support people who leave the same comment word-for-word on every post, as it can come across as spam and may detract from the true engagement. It's important to show genuine interest and avoid mindless repetition that can harm the quality of the conversation. Similarly, commenting off-topic can be disruptive and take away from the focus of the post, so it’s important to stay relevant and respectful to the content.

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I hope you have a wonderful and restful Sunday as well.

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  14. Hello Melody Jacob :)
    First of all, I wish you a good and successful year, and may luck be with you, because sometimes everyone needs it.

    Yes, it's true - I also don't like such general comments unrelated to what the post contains. I think it's better not to write anything if you don't read the post.
    I always try to read it, after all, a comment is my way of adding something or recognizing the author for what he does. It is also important that if you leave a comment, let it be a comment related to what I write.
    A comment on the topic always lets the author of the post know that the reader has really spent a few moments and read with interest what you have to write, express or give their own thought, which may sometimes be different from the author of the post.
    As you may have noticed, I often visit here and sometimes leave comments, which I hope are welcome to you.
    Warm regards.

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    1. I completely agree with you—leaving meaningful comments that reflect an understanding of the post is much more valuable than general, unrelated remarks. I truly appreciate your visits and the insights you share when you comment. It’s always nice to have a meaningful exchange. Thank you.

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  15. Thank you. I believe that the comments add to a blog post immeasurably - that is the comments which are more than 'Great blog'. The ones that say 'Great Blog, read my post' irritate me most.
    I do try to respond to every comment but sometimes Thank you says it all. And is heart felt.

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    1. You're absolutely right! Comments truly add depth to a blog post, making the conversation more interactive and enriching. Thoughtful comments, those that reflect an understanding of the content, are what really make the space feel like a community rather than just a one-way exchange.

      I completely understand how the "Great blog, read my post" comments can be frustrating, especially when they feel like they’re only focused on self-promotion rather than engaging with the content. It’s great that you take the time to respond thoughtfully, as that helps to create a meaningful dialogue. And sometimes, a simple "Thank you" is the best response—it conveys genuine appreciation without needing anything more.

      Your approach is so considerate, and I’m sure your readers appreciate the thought and care you put into both your posts and your responses. Keep it up!

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    2. There’s one commenter who always breaks that comment into two separate ones: “Great blog” And separately, “Please read my post.” That one just makes me laugh, as I delete it.

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  16. Um comentário pode ajudar o blog, mas também por outro lado pode prejudicar, temos que ler pra comentar de acordo, pois queremos que façamos o mesmo com o nosso Melody bjs.

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    1. You're absolutely right! Thoughtful, constructive comments can enhance the discussion, while careless ones might detract from it. It's all about maintaining a positive and respectful environment.

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  17. I totally agree! It’s so easy to leave a quick “Nice post,” but it doesn’t really add anything to the conversation. Thoughtful comments make a blog feel more engaging and help build a real connection with the writer.

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    1. Exactly! Thoughtful comments create a meaningful dialogue and strengthen the connection between the writer and readers. It's those deeper insights that truly enrich the conversation!

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  18. Hai fatto un post veramente articolato e hai espresso molto bene un pensiero che anche io avevo da tanto tempo.
    Ti sei dimenticata però di aggiungere che ci sono addirittura molti blogger che ricevono messaggi e non si degnano neanche di rispondere e visitare il blog di chi ha fatto il commento.
    Quello mi infastidisce ancora di più.
    Capisco che magari i primi tempi uno voglia vedere se la persona è veramente interessata al tuo blog e quindi inizialmente non risponde ma se uno da mesi ti lascia commenti, almeno po' Er educazione una risposta sarebbe bello lasciarla, non trovi?

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    1. I understand your frustration! When you leave thoughtful comments, you expect some kind of acknowledgment in return. It's always nice to engage with others who truly appreciate your thoughts. If the connection feels one-sided, it's natural to feel disheartened. Still, consistency in offering meaningful comments can sometimes lead to more genuine interactions over time.

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  19. Concordo, mas eu gosto de fazer comentários simples.
    Uma boa semana.
    Um beijo.

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    1. That’s perfectly fine! Simple comments can be just as meaningful, especially when they’re sincere.

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  20. Melody, you've just offered a Blogging 101 course in this post with so many excellent thoughts and reminders. Because of thoughtful comments (on both our sides) I have been able to develop some very warm and even real-life blog friendships with like-minded and supportive people who have enriched my life and knowledge in many ways. We often continue our "comment conversations" via email (assuming someone is not a no-reply blogger.) I will say that sometimes there may be exceptions to the short-comment rule, depending on the post, the blogger, the content. But overall, I am in complete agreement!

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    1. Thoughtful comments are truly the foundation for building lasting relationships and meaningful connections in the blogging world. It’s great that you've been able to nurture these friendships and continue the conversation beyond the blog.

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  21. Dear Melody,
    You are always so good at writing comments on my blog. I am not as good at writing comments on yours. As you point out, English can be difficult for us who come from a non-English speaking country. I come from Norway, and I am not very good at English. I still try to write a little. Now I use Google Translate, but sometimes it translates completely wrong. It is a very good blog post you have written. Happy New Year to you too!

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    1. Thank you so much for your kind words! I really appreciate you taking the time to comment, and your effort to engage, even with the challenges of language, is admirable. Don’t worry about perfect English—your message is clear, and I always enjoy reading your thoughts. Wishing you a wonderful year ahead.

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  22. Boa tarde de Paz querida amiga Melody!
    Você fez um apanhado muito completo de aprendizados sobre a arte de blogar.
    Vamos lá:
    Só coloco copiado e colado nas Datas Especiais, mas nunca sem deixar, antes ou depois, uma palavrinha sobre o post propriamente.
    De todo o conteúdo do seu post, devo lhe dizer que tem uns sim que só dizem gostei ou lindo e coloca lá seu link para autopromoção.
    Coitados!
    Deixo de comentar vários assim.
    Só os que enfrentam dificuldades de saúde ou similares eu continuo visitando.
    Acho que é pura preguiça e cobiça de comentários mesmo, como bem disse.
    Por falar em "caça comentários" têm blogueiros que só faltam nos enforcar para que os comentemos, como se fosse obrigação nossa, não prazer e reciprocidade. É horroroso isso.
    Não vejo nada de sadio na prática assim honestamente.

    Agora, tem algo que disse também que considero de maior relevância:

    "Seja educado e respeitoso".

    Para nim, não adianta seguir à risca tido o que disse aqui, se vem com grosseria, com prepotência como se dominasse tudo sobre tudo, com falta de ética, sobretudo.
    Cada um dá o seu melhor e merece todo respeito.
    Afinal, não sabemos com quem estamos lidando do outro lado da telinha que é ima Pessoa e não e uma pedra...
    Temos coração e blogamos por prazer. Não continuaria se não fosse por prazer.
    Tal como vou em cada blog, por sinal, por gratuidade.
    Comento muito mais do que recebo.
    Mas que importa se faço por prazer?
    E lá se vao quase 16 anos.
    Se não tivesse reciprocidade, já teria desistido.
    Aprendi MUITO.
    Não tenho a pretensão de ensinar nada.
    Apenas podto meus sentimentos, apelos e saberes ( que todos temos em cada área)
    Tenha uma nova semana abençoada!
    Beijinhos fraternos

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  23. A very interesting article... having a blog allows you to broaden your ideas and opinions as well as becoming friends with new people...
    I hope you have a Merry 2025.
    All the best
    Marta

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  24. Dlatego ja zazwyczaj piszę wszystkie komentarze w swoim języku. Niektórzy rzeczywiście nawet nie czytają wpisów, tylko publikują uniwersalne komentarze. Twój artykuł jest bardzo profesjonalny i przekazuje wiele cennej wiedzy. Brawo!

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  25. ...yoou can translate my blog, but because the format that I have chosen, it is a bit hidden in a right sidebar. Blogger is what Blogger is!

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  26. This is a helpful post, thanks for all the information.
    I didn't know a lot of it, for example that meaningless comments mean a disadvantage.
    Good to know that it is so.

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  27. Witaj Melody
    Zacznę od życzeń na nowy rok. Życzę Ci dużo zdrowia oraz satysfakcji z prowadzenia bloga.
    Muszę przyznać że bardzo trafny wpis. Ja także zauważyłam takie komentarze u siebie... chciałoby się czytać i odpowiadać na bardziej kreatywne komentarze, ale takie życie że nic nie zrobisz...
    Ja nie posługuje się żadnym językiem poza swoim ojczystym, dlatego bardzo dziękuję Ci za podpowiedź z dodaniem funkcji tranlatora na blogu. Już to u siebie zrobiłam. Bardzo dziękuję za wskazówkę 😀
    Serdecznie pozdrawiam i jeszcze raz życzę udanego roku.

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    1. I'm glad you found the tip about the translator function helpful; it can truly make a difference for engaging with a wider audience. Creative comments definitely add so much more to blogging, but it's great that you're focusing on making your blog more accessible. Warmest regards to you too, and here's to a fantastic year ahead.

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  28. Repetindo meu comentário:

    Boa tarde de Paz querida amiga Melody!
    Você fez um apanhado muito completo de aprendizados sobre a arte de blogar.
    Vamos lá:
    Só coloco copiado e colado nas Datas Especiais, mas nunca sem deixar, antes ou depois, uma palavrinha sobre o post propriamente.
    De todo o conteúdo do seu post, devo lhe dizer que tem uns sim que só dizem gostei ou lindo e coloca lá seu link para autopromoção.
    Coitados!
    Deixo de comentar vários assim.
    Só os que enfrentam dificuldades de saúde ou similares eu continuo visitando.
    Acho que é pura preguiça e cobiça de comentários mesmo, como bem disse.
    Por falar em "caça comentários" têm blogueiros que só faltam nos enforcar para que os comentemos, como se fosse obrigação nossa, não prazer e reciprocidade. É horroroso isso.
    Não vejo nada de sadio na prática assim honestamente.

    Agora, tem algo que disse também que considero de maior relevância:

    "Seja educado e respeitoso".

    Para nim, não adianta seguir à risca tido o que disse aqui, se vem com grosseria, com prepotência como se dominasse tudo sobre tudo, com falta de ética, sobretudo.
    Cada um dá o seu melhor e merece todo respeito.
    Afinal, não sabemos com quem estamos lidando do outro lado da telinha que é ima Pessoa e não e uma pedra...
    Temos coração e blogamos por prazer. Não continuaria se não fosse por prazer.
    Tal como vou em cada blog, por sinal, por gratuidade.
    Comento muito mais do que recebo.
    Mas que importa se faço por prazer?
    E lá se vao quase 16 anos.
    Se não tivesse reciprocidade, já teria desistido.
    Aprendi MUITO.
    Não tenho a pretensão de ensinar nada.
    Apenas podto meus sentimentos, apelos e saberes ( que todos temos em cada área)
    Tenha uma nova semana abençoada!
    Beijinhos fraternos

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  29. This type of people who leave the same comments on multiple blogs is a bit irritating to me and the comments like: "nice post" or "cool photos" are really annoying.
    I'm not good at English and if the text is long, I always use the translation option to read, it's really useful.

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  30. I'm totally with you on this and to be honest I no longer return the favour of commenting to bloggers who are leaving these generic comments without even reading one's post. These are the kind of bloggers who only want to generate lots of followers without going to the trouble of contributing anything meaningful.
    Although English isn't my first language, as an Anglophile I opted to write in English, but I'm also following blogs in foreign languages I don't speak myself, or only have a limited grasp of. Not only do I go to the trouble of translating them, I also try to add at least a couple of words in the blogger's language in my comments. I even do so when a blogger writes in English but I know it isn't their first language.
    I think it is a question of courtesy, as when one is taking blogging seriously, one is aiming to build some kind of relationship with one's fellow bloggers.
    Thank you, Melody, for sharing your thoughts on this and raising awareness! xxx

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  31. Lo has explicado muy bien.
    De maravilla.
    Yo llevo 18 años con el blog y he visto de todo.
    Al principio cuando hubo la fiebre del blog llegué a tener más de 200 comentarios en algunos posts... luego pasó el tiempo y aparecieron otras redes sociales, y mucha gente emigró a ellas porque requerían menos esfuerzo personal.
    Pienso que esa fuga fue positiva porque mucha gente como la que describes desapareció.
    Es cierto que aún así queda gente que comenta algo vacío.. yo a esa gente la ignoro.
    Mi forma de bloguear durante estos 18 años se ha regido siempre por la honestidad y la reciprocidad... y pienso seguir así durante todo el tiempo que pueda.
    Gracias por tus consejos y que tengas un feliz 2025.

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  32. Thanks =) Yes it's always nice to get a free product. We throw away too many things and so I want to rescue products like this because they're always longer lasting then the best before dates. I can't wait to try the Slim Shake Marzipan with the other product <3 I think it comes this week. Happy New Year too <3

    I like this post a lot =) You're so right that many people don't read the post and just write something like "Cool post" or "Thanks for sharing". I don't know why but if you don't want to read something you don't have to comment :D
    I love to ask questions after my posts to find out what the people think about the stuff inside. And it makes more fun to text with longer sentences :D

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  33. Boa tarde, garota! 🤩 Que post revelador e cheio de insights! Adorei como você abordou a importância dos comentários genuínos e a construção de uma comunidade autêntica. Suas reflexões sobre diversidade linguística e a inclusão de widgets de tradução são brilhantes – é um toque de inclusão que pode transformar a experiência de leitura. Obrigada por compartilhar essas dicas valiosas e por nos lembrar da essência verdadeira do engajamento online. Vamos fazer de 2025 um ano de conexões significativas e crescimento mútuo! Um grande abraço e muita inspiração para todas nós! Beijo grande! 😘💐

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    1. I’m thrilled that you found the post insightful. Genuine comments and creating an authentic community are so important, and I’m glad that the thoughts on linguistic diversity resonated with you.

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  34. Buenas noches, nos has informado muy bien y de todo tiene que haber, por el simple hecho de que alguien deje un bueno o un saludo ya tiene mi respeto, a veces cuando las entradas son muy largas, las personas no leen todo, no porque quizás no quieran sino el tiempo que les lleva, otras porque sencillamente no les pude gustar, con respeto no hay problemas yo acepto las revisiones y los comentarios aunque no sean a mi favor, lo que no me gusta nada es la falta de respeto, si no te gusta no entres y no comenten nadie está obligado. Y si hay personas que comentan por lo escrito, otros simplemente saludan, todo es válido. Un besote gracias, por la información nunca esta demás.

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    1. It really can make a difference in fostering inclusivity and enriching the online experience. Genuine comments and creating an authentic community are so important. Thanks for sharing your perspective.

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  35. Unos consejos muy interesantes a seguir, aunque he de decirte que yo en mi blog solo intento dejar muestra de aquellos lugres que visito. Muchos de los cuales no son muy conocidos y trato de explicar lo que muestro por la información que dejan en carteles o en internet en varios lugares. Como ves no se inserta publicidad por lo que me cuesta dinero aunque disfruto visitando esos lugares.
    Yo uso el traductor aunque en ocasiones tengo que traducir ya que no veo una traducción coherente.
    Sobre los comentarios en spam en mi blog me han salido algunos que en su día fueron publicados y unos meses después salen como spam. Digo esto ya que hay días que solo miro si hay alguno para publicar.
    Soy mas permisivo en los comentarios que hacen hacía mi que sobre otras personas, creencias, ideologías por lo que en ocasiones borre alguno de ese tipo. Tampoco dejo aquellos que dejen publicidad de algún negocio o si están en spam los borro sin publicar.

    Saludos.

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  36. EStoy de acuerdo contigo. Pero entiendo que por ser de un idioma que no es el mío, tengo que buscar la traducción automática del traductor de google y no es muy fiable, la verdad es que muchas veces cuesta entender lo que traduce... y ultimamente cada vez se comenta menos en los blogs , al menos en los de cocina, como es mi caso. Agradezco todos esos consejos que das en tu post y merece la pena tenerlos en cuenta. Que el nuevo año te traiga muchas cosas buenas!! Un saludo

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  37. OH yes, I completely agree! I have often marked those one or two word comments as spam. I love reading blogs from across the globe and find that Google translate is so helpful for that; I have mine set to automatically translate and while it's obviously not 100% accurate it is definitely close enough to understand the point they are trying to get across. I have seen some really beautiful places across the globe I want to add to my travels due to this!

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    1. I’m so glad to hear you’ve had such a positive experience with Google Translate! While it’s not perfect, it really does open up the world and make cross-cultural connections so much easier, especially when reading blogs from different parts of the globe.

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  38. My comments on blogs are rarely long, but I do try to make them relevant and thoughtful.

    Interestingly, Melody, your well written, thoughtful comments on my blog are almost always marked as spam, whether or not you include a link in your comment.

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    1. That’s odd about my comments being marked as spam! Sometimes, blog platforms can mistakenly categorize legitimate comments as spam, even without any links included. It might be the way certain words or phrases are recognized, or how the comment system is set up. I’d recommend checking your spam folder periodically, and marking my comments as “Not Spam” if that happens again, to help train the system. Let’s hope it’s a glitch that gets sorted out! Thank you.

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  39. Jesteś bardzo rzetelna i twoje komentarze. Od razu widać, że przeczytałaś cały post z zainteresowaniem. Czasem też wolę nie pisać nic niż zostawic komuś komentarz na odwal się w stylu "super post, obserwuje" i tym podobne. Czasem zdarzało mi się dostawać podobne komentarze na odczepnego. Zaraz wiedziałam, że ktoś nie był zainteresowany tematem posta. Jeśli nie mam opinii na konkretny temat to przechodzę do innego i już. Dostawałam też kupę spamu w postaci linków do stron i reklam czegoś tam co mnie nie interesowało.

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    1. It’s unfortunate that spam and irrelevant ads are part of the blogging world now. I’m sure it can be frustrating, especially when you’re putting in the effort to create quality content. Hopefully, we can keep fostering those thoughtful and genuine interactions!

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  40. Thank you for sharing this wealth of information. I always appreciate your content. I also love the thoughtful comments on my blog posts. Many blessings friend.
    www.rsrue.blogspot.com

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  41. THIS!!! A huge thank you to you, Melody, for creating this invaluable article. I really enjoyed reading it. What's more - I wholeheartedly share your opinion on this topic. I've always hated those spammy comments: "beautiful blog", "great post" and thought I was the only one - now I know that there are others who loathe them in the same manner :) I find them extremely disrspectful. Needless to say, I never visit websites belonging to these spammers. These commentators didn't put any effort, why should I?

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  42. Good post 😉
    For me reading in a different language is a helpful excercise and because of the same reason I also try to answer in Englisch.
    A good spam filter helps, as you write, it also learns. A few months ago, a blogger colleague wrote a nice article about virtual domiciliary rights, virtuelles Hausrecht (and I have no idea how you would say that in English): https://birgit-oppermann.de/ist-loeschen-zensur/
    Best regards

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    1. Thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed the post. You're absolutely right—reading in a different language is a great exercise, and responding in English helps improve language skills. As for "virtuelles Hausrecht," the translation could be "virtual domicile rights" or "virtual house rights," but the exact meaning would depend on the context in which it's used. It sounds like an interesting topic.

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  43. This is such a well written and informative post. I feel like everyone should read it! Please know that not only does your content here stand out, but your comments elsewhere do as well. I have often been so touched by your thoughtfulness on my own blog. It can really brighten my day to know that someone took the time to read and care about what I wrote. Everyone deserves that feeling! Being part of a blogging community is so meaningful. I love that we can learn more in general, but also more about one another. Your post really highlights why it is important to be genuinely engaged. Also, thank goodness for translation tools! It is amazing that we are able to read content from around the world with such ease. Thank you for being such an important voice and for making the world a little brighter <3
    the creation of beauty is art.

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  44. That you very much for coming to my cat's blog today. I, her human mom, have a personal one as well...but Katie Isabella, a girl kitty, dictates hers. I am only the typist. After hers, I am usually permitted to write my own. You may have been going to comment on Peaches and Paprika perhaps. They are kind to several of we pet bloggers and did a picture of all of us using an art filter. Katie's was lovely. Thank you again for the visit. We are always (sincerely) honored by new visitors.

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  45. Good post ...

    However, often Bloggers have quite a number of blogs which they visit everyday, and they don't really have the time to read every post thoroughly and comment meaningfully to each. So they have two choices - either not comment at all, which would imply that they have not visited or are not interested in what one has written; or to comment a brief polite salutation to show they have visited and appreciate the article and the time it took to write it.

    I have visited your blog here in return to your recent visit to me, for which I'm grateful. It would have been impolite not to comment at all. So sometimes, a brief greeting is left instead. It is meant as a genuine expression of encouragement and support.

    God bless.

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  46. Yes, I completely understand this when I get vague comments - shows no interest in actually reading the blog post! I take the time to read all the comments and reply to them all. I have been getting A LOT of spam lately, but I approve all my comments unless you're a regular reader who leaves comments.

    Sometimes as a blogger I can see why people do this, it's most likely an easy way of getting engagement off someone's popular blog and for that blogger to read and comment on their blog. It can be a bit frustrating with the vague-ness sometimes and then you end up replying in the same style even though you carefully read their blog posts.

    Zoey | www.zoeyolivia.com xx

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    1. I completely understand your frustration with vague comments. It can be tricky to strike a balance when responding to vague comments—sometimes, you end up giving a more generic response because of how little effort the other person put in. But it’s awesome that you’re still keeping the conversation going and maintaining your standards of meaningful engagement.

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  47. Thanks for the thoughtful post. I don’t usually mind short comments and sometimes I leave them myself. It depends upon the post. If it is just a cartoon, I feel comfortable in just saying, “That’s funny.“ or if it’s just one photo with a title, a short comment seems appropriate. However, if the person wrote an entire essay, it deserves a longer comment, or perhaps if I don’t agree with it, no comment at all. If you found it offensive, maybe a single word comment is a way to express what you feel.

    I don’t mind short comments on my blog, especially if my post was just a photo or two. I think of myself more as a photo blogger than an essayist, although sometimes I write instructive posts. What I do mind is advertisements. For a while, I kept getting ads in Arabic for some guy that cleaned rugs. I felt obligated to translate them, only to see that they were advertisements. So annoying!

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  48. The ideas in the article are very good! I'd like it to be read by those who write everywhere "good post, great blog" or - worse - just an emoticon. Thank you for this articole.
    Like you, I read an article carefully - even in a language I don't know at all (I translate with google) - sometimes, however, the translations are strange and I'm afraid I might write something unrelated to the article because of the wrong translation. It would be a disaster! 😊
    Grammatically I know that I make mistakes, but I have an excuse, 😊 because it's not a language I know.

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  49. Thank you so much for the very good informations :)

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  50. Hello, Melody
    Thanks for all the information. I do have the google translator on my side bar, I find the translator to be very helpful with some blogs. I appreciate you and everyone that comments on my blog, it is nice they take the time to visit. Take care and have a great week!

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  51. Dear Melody, I have come visiting your blog after you kindly visited me and left a very lovely and encouraging comment.This post drew me in and I have learned some very useful things from it. I always try to respond to people that have been generous enough to leave me a comment, but sometimes there is no link attached to their ID so a more personal response is not possible and a reply on the post to a comment doesn't always get seen. Thank you for your tip about adding the translation widget. I have it on my blog and sometimes find it frustrating trying to find on other blogs. It helps if it is near the top. I think I will go and check out my browser settings so I don't have to find the button on the blog. Thank you for your visit and for helping me expand my knowledge. I love the connections I have made all over the world through my blog. It is so nice to realise that there are many people just like me out there. Have a great week and thanks again for your visit xx

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