I want to talk about an event that recently happened at a Nigerian university. I’m sure similar incidents have occurred in different parts of the world, but because Nigeria is a very religious country and this was caught on camera, it has now become the talk of the internet.
A lady was making a TikTok video, which unintentionally included her lecturer. As the lecturer was passing through the hallway, she was moving backward without noticing him approaching. Gently, he tapped her on the shoulder and asked her to leave the hallway. Instead of complying, she responded loudly, "Can you imagine?" She then confronted the lecturer for interrupting her video and proceeded to assault the lecturer by fighting with him, which was seen in the video that is trending online.
Many young women and people nowadays believe that being rude and arrogant makes them a "big girl," but that is foolishness at the highest level. I can't stress enough how undisciplined the Gen Z generation is. They talk carelessly, react impulsively, and often behave as if they have no home training—always defensive and speaking a lot without making sense.
I have a younger sister who is Gen Z, and I’ve had to caution her about certain behaviors. Why would a lady in a university think it’s acceptable to fight a lecturer simply because he said, "I don’t want to be in your video"? The government is beginning to consider regulating or even taking away social media due to its out-of-control nature.
The level of disrespect among Gen Z, their lack of accountability, and their disregard for basic respect are alarming. The lady in question has been expelled, and whatever she was thinking—whether she was trying to trend or prove a point—I hope she realizes that these videos stay on the internet forever.
Working with Gen Z can be frustrating; they struggle to handle conversations without cursing or getting defensive. They are always on edge, and there is absolutely no excuse for being rude or unkind. You go online, and they are constantly preaching about positivity while exhibiting bad behavior. Everyone online seems wise until you speak to them in person and hear their views on real-life matters.
I have a younger sister who is Gen Z, and I’ve had to caution her about certain behaviors. Why would a lady in a university think it’s acceptable to fight a lecturer simply because he said, "I don’t want to be in your video"? The government is beginning to consider regulating or even taking away social media due to its out-of-control nature.
The level of disrespect among Gen Z, their lack of accountability, and their disregard for basic respect are alarming. The lady in question has been expelled, and whatever she was thinking—whether she was trying to trend or prove a point—I hope she realizes that these videos stay on the internet forever.
Working with Gen Z can be frustrating; they struggle to handle conversations without cursing or getting defensive. They are always on edge, and there is absolutely no excuse for being rude or unkind. You go online, and they are constantly preaching about positivity while exhibiting bad behavior. Everyone online seems wise until you speak to them in person and hear their views on real-life matters.
There is no respect for seniors or the elderly anymore. Youths can’t even respect veterans; they talk to them anyhow and lack the patience to listen. It’s sad that some governments have promoted these behaviors through certain laws. Worse still, many parents today can’t properly train their children—kids now threaten to call authorities on their parents instead of listening. Authorities, in turn, are quick to take children away from their families.
Child welfare in many countries is a topic we don’t even want to get into because of the damaged children and addicts that often come out of the government’s training system. Many parents, fearing this, simply manage their kids until they are old enough to move out. Sadly, when a child is not properly trained at home, society ends up training them—and that often leads to jail.
Youths need to respect their elders; it is a fundamental rule of life and morality. Personally, I advocate for the traditional style of upbringing, where children don’t talk back to their parents or elders. Nowadays, you see kids on the streets insulting adults old enough to be their parents, and we call it "freedom of speech." Well, as always, they eventually graduate to behavior that lands them in jail.
I must commend the committee of Nnamdi Azikiwe University for taking a strong stand against that student. You mess around, and you find out what comes next.
Child welfare in many countries is a topic we don’t even want to get into because of the damaged children and addicts that often come out of the government’s training system. Many parents, fearing this, simply manage their kids until they are old enough to move out. Sadly, when a child is not properly trained at home, society ends up training them—and that often leads to jail.
Youths need to respect their elders; it is a fundamental rule of life and morality. Personally, I advocate for the traditional style of upbringing, where children don’t talk back to their parents or elders. Nowadays, you see kids on the streets insulting adults old enough to be their parents, and we call it "freedom of speech." Well, as always, they eventually graduate to behavior that lands them in jail.
I must commend the committee of Nnamdi Azikiwe University for taking a strong stand against that student. You mess around, and you find out what comes next.
It's very difficult problem!
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely, it’s a very difficult problem with no easy solution. It feels like society is moving in the wrong direction in many ways, but hopefully, awareness and discussions like this can help make a difference.
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ReplyDeleteI left that put, and yes very entitled.
DeleteEs nuestra culpa como educamos a la generación Z y si no hacemos algo esto empeorara. Hemos creado unas generaciones malcriadas y egoístas y ellos no están preparados para lo que se les viene. Te mando un beso.
ReplyDeleteYou’re absolutely right—how we raise and educate the younger generations shapes the future. If we don’t take action, things will only decline further. Many young people are growing up unprepared for real challenges, and that’s a serious concern.
DeleteAs redes sociais, tornaram-se um vício a nível global. Infelizmente, as mentalidades destas novas gerações, não generalizando, naturalmente, pensam que podem fazer o que lhes dá na gana seja onde for. Não respeitando nada nem ninguém. Como aqui muito bem relatas. Seria bom que o uso do Telemóvel fosse proibido nas salas de aulas.
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I completely agree—social media has turned into a global addiction, and it’s affecting the way young people think and behave. Many feel entitled to do whatever they want, without considering respect or consequences. Banning cell phones in classrooms could be a great step toward helping them focus on real learning instead of distractions.
DeleteDear Melody, I find it hard to imagine this situation. When I was a university student, TikTok didn't exist. Besides, I never use TikTok.
ReplyDeleteI get what you mean. Honestly, I think we were better off without it. It’s wild how much it has taken over young people’s lives today. I don’t use TikTok either, and I don’t feel like I’m missing out on anything.
DeleteUnfortunately, this is a problem that has infiltrated all sectors of society. I see it most in the work force. Today's youth seem to think that a college education qualifies them to start at the top of the pay schedule without the need to work for it. The things that you bring up in your post is only the tip of the iceberg. Good sensible post. Keep up the good work.
ReplyDeleteHugs an Blessings
You're absolutely right—this problem runs deep in every part of society, and the workforce is a prime example. Too many young people expect top pay and high positions without putting in the hard work. The entitlement mindset is real, and it’s only getting worse. And yeah, what I mentioned is just scratching the surface—there’s a lot more to unpack. Appreciate your thoughts and support!
DeleteYouthful rudeness has been a problem for centuries. I think that the desire to be an influencer on TikTok or whatever can overrule common sense.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely! Youthful rudeness is nothing new, but the rise of social media has definitely amplified it. The desire to be an influencer can overshadow basic common sense and respect. It’s frustrating to see how some chase fame over values.
DeleteI completely agree with you. It's slowly getting out of hand. In German schools, students are slowly starting to have to hand over their cell phones during class.
ReplyDeleteExactly! It really is getting out of hand. I think that policy in German schools makes a lot of sense. Taking away cell phones during class could help students focus more on their education and less on distractions.
DeleteThey don't have any good teachers anymore... they need to be taught kindness...
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I hear you. Good teachers who instill values like kindness are essential, and it seems like that’s becoming less common. Education should be about more than just academics; it’s also about teaching respect and empathy.
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ReplyDeleteThank you very much for this post. You raised a topic that has been bothering me for a long time.
I see everything you write about and I am concerned about where this generation is heading, for which there are no authorities, no boundaries in behavior, and audacity goes beyond all norms.
In addition, demandingness and aggression.
It is best to do nothing but have everything because you deserve it.
Unfortunately, the fault is not only these young people but also their parents. Nobody is born either good or bad. It's a matter of upbringing. You have to love wisely.
Best regards 😘
Thank you for your thoughtful response! I completely agree—it's concerning to see where this generation is heading without clear boundaries or authority figures. The sense of entitlement and aggression is alarming. You're right; it’s not just the young people at fault—it often comes down to how they were raised. Parenting plays a huge role, and love has to come with guidance and discipline. It’s all about finding that balance.
DeleteMobile phones and the social media platforms have ruined the personalities of the young people. We have a very serious problem, Melody.
ReplyDeleteAnd the problem begins directly from the family. From the parents. They have the responsibility for all this bad situation. No control!
I think that all mobile phones have to be absolutely out of every kind of school. Immediately without second thought.
Have a nice week, my dear friend.
You're absolutely right—mobile phones and social media have messed up the personalities of many young people. It’s a serious issue, and it all starts at home. Parents need to step up and take responsibility for this mess. I completely agree that phones should be banned from schools, no questions asked. It’s time to take decisive action!
DeleteI agree with you, Melody my dear.
DeleteI agree with you. Kids need to get a handle on growing up!
ReplyDeleteExactly! Kids really need to learn how to navigate growing up without relying on their phones and social media. It’s all about developing real-life skills and responsibilities.
DeleteI can't read such stories, they make me even more depressed than I already am. I have been working as a techer for 34 years and i has become more and more difficutl a job. Dangerous sometimes. Only yesterday I read an article, a collection of school horror stories, when children or young adults attack teachers, verbally and physically. That is really terrible. I am on a prolonged sick leave now, and I hope never to come back to teaching.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you. I always enjoy going to our local Native American Powwows because in their culture they honor their elders considering them as the keepers of wisdom, history, and cultural traditions. They look to them for guidance and treat them with great reverence in their communities; this respect is a core tenet of most Native American cultures that I wish all cultures would adopt!
ReplyDeleteI love that! It’s so inspiring to see how Native American cultures prioritize honoring their elders as the keepers of wisdom and tradition. Respecting and valuing older generations is something every culture could benefit from adopting. It’s such a vital part of building strong, connected communities!
DeleteSo true, Melody. There simply is no or little respect for one's elders anymore, and I too advocate for the traditional style of upbringing. Social media has a lot to answer for, I think. In many schools here in Belgium, students have to hand in their mobile phones during classes, but in the end it all boils down to common sense, doesn't it. xxx
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely! The lack of respect for elders is really concerning, and I agree that traditional values are important. Social media has definitely played a big role in this decline. It's good to hear that some schools in Belgium are taking steps to limit phone use, but at the end of the day, it really does come down to common sense and the values we instill in the younger generation.
DeleteMelody creo estar mas cerca en edad a tus padres que a ti, pero veo que en este tema estas mas cercana a lo que pensamos tus padres y yo.
ReplyDeleteEste tipo de personas priorizan un "me gusta" sobre todo y aquí parece que el profesor le estropeo el video.
Yo recuerdo ver a una niña pegando a su madre y su abuela con unos 8 años (hoy tiene unos 25), su madre es policía. Si siguió por esa línea no se que hará ahora.
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I get what you’re saying. It feels like there’s a huge generational gap when it comes to values. It’s disturbing to see how some people prioritize likes and attention over real-life respect and relationships. That story about the girl hitting her mother and grandmother is alarming—it makes you wonder where things went wrong and what kind of person she’s become now. It’s a tough reality.
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ReplyDeleteI agree with what you wrote - unfortunately, today's youth have no respect for their elders. This is very sad and wrong. I, today, from the perspective of years, understand the importance of listening to older people and learning from them. I, in adulthood, acknowledge my grandmother's rightness on many issues. I will give one example: the war. My grandmother was in forced labor in Germany. She told me and my cousin many times that war is terrible and may we never experience it! What did I tell my grandmother? I said that war was in the past, today people are different, history has taught mankind and if there is going to be a war, it will be of a different kind, for example, it will be in an economic form. What have the last three years shown? The world has learned nothing.
Melody, unfortunately, but young people are also arrogant, demanding, a large percentage of them are selfish. A big problem is also drugs, alcohol... There is little empathy. In my opinion, unfortunately, but this is also the fault of those in power. Young people watching the world see the arrogance, arrogance, hypocrisy, hypocrisy of politicians, “elites”.
Melody, I talking about TikTok, I do not use this application. Unfortunately, but young people are addicted to cell phones and social media...
Melody, I salute you and I wish you a good new week!
I hear you, and I agree—respect for elders is something that seems to be fading, which is both sad and concerning. There’s so much wisdom to be gained from older generations, yet many young people dismiss it. Your grandmother’s experience is a powerful reminder that history has harsh lessons, but unfortunately, humanity keeps repeating the same mistakes.
DeleteArrogance, entitlement, and lack of empathy are real issues, and I also think leadership plays a big role in shaping society’s values. When young people see hypocrisy at the top, it’s no surprise that many adopt the same attitudes. And yes, social media and smartphone addiction are only making things worse, creating a culture of instant gratification and superficiality. It’s a tough reality, but conversations like this are important in calling it out.
Boa noite, amiga Melody!
ReplyDeletePassando por aqui, para desejar uma feliz semana, com tudo de bom.
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Thank you, have a great week.
Deleteit seems this kind of behaviors happens everywhere nowadays....
ReplyDeletethank you for sharing your thoughts....
Yes, it does seem like these behaviors are becoming more common in many places. It’s a reminder of how important it is to promote respect and good values in society.
DeleteDisrespectful behavior, especially violence, is never acceptable.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely agree—disrespect and violence should never be tolerated. It’s important to encourage positive values and accountability, no matter the generation.
DeleteThat is not good at all. They have no respect. I didn't see that video, well not yet. I use TikTok but I don't have many followers, just 20.7K.
ReplyDeleteI know down here in Australia discipline is missing with many children including the Gen Z generation. If parents were to discipline the latter many of them would just ignore their parents as they have the cheek of a rhinoceros. Thank goodness my grandchildren are not like them and hopefully will never be.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Discipline and respect are definitely topics that come up often when discussing Gen Z. It’s interesting how parenting styles and societal norms have changed over the years. It’s great to hear that your grandchildren are well-mannered—good values really do make a difference!
DeleteI totally agree, also their working attitude is a horror!
ReplyDeleteIt's unfortunate that they have difficulty working with others. I mean, their office is not their home, and they must learn to adapt and be professional in order to focus on work.
DeleteThis is disappointing. Respect comes first, even over social media. The university made the right call. Hopefully, this is a lesson for others.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree—respect should always come first, no matter the platform. It’s disappointing to see that so many lose sight of that. The university’s decision was a smart move, and hopefully, it sets a precedent for others to follow.
DeleteWow.. that is unbelievable. People have this delusion that their social media lives, likes, follows are more important than their real lives and the people in them.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely, it’s mind-blowing! So many people seem to think their social media presence is more important than their real-life relationships and experiences. It’s a sad reflection of where we are today, and it’s really concerning.
ReplyDeleteBom dia, Melody
ReplyDeletePostagem interessante. Acredito que a educação precisa começar em casa, através dos pais, ensinar sobre amor e respeito é fundamental para que elas cresçam tendo boas maneiras com o próximo, um forte abraço.
Bom dia querida Melody!
ReplyDeletePrimeiramente quero agradecer sua presença nos meus blogs com palavras que me fizeram refletir positivamente e que me deixaram muito feliz. Você é uma escritora sensacional.
E também dizer o quanto esse assunto da geração Z, que só pensa em fazer vídeos para a plataforma TIK TOK , é chocante. Estou estarrrecida com a irresponsabilidade da senhora que desrespeitou o professor de uma maneira absurda. Onde está o respeitopelas pessoas mais velhas? Realmente é algo para refletir pois estamos criando monstros que não sabem se comunicar, apenas ofender e gritar. Uma lástima.
Grata por esse post incrível e uma ótima semana!! ;))))))
It's a big and difficult problem.
ReplyDeleteEverything starts in the family with education.
I think mobile phones don't belong in school at all.
Considero lamentáveis situações como estas, as pessoas precisam de aprender a seprar as coisas, mas acima de tudo, preciso de trazer para fora das redes sociais a empatia que tanto pregam!
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I think this kind of behavior happens everywhere. It used to be unthinkable. Students always teased teachers, but not to the point of fighting them! Unfortunately, I think that respect should be taught primarily at home. A lack of it may mean that the parents are to blame. I have a child myself, he is only a year old, but I want to teach him to be a good person. Best wishes!
ReplyDeleteUn tema muy de actualidad, se ha perdido el respeto a los demás, no todo vale.
ReplyDeleteIt's funny you mention this because not long ago, I was at a board meeting for our local theatre and the chair was talking about how with this (then) newer crop of students, they have had to teach them basic theatre and classroom etiquette (like don't converse or check your phone while others are doing their acting scenes or be still backstage, because you are heard in the audience. This group grew up with a lot of home school during Covid (online) and even when they returned, many group school activities took some time to get back in gear. They had no sense of public etiquette. I also notice that in a "real" movie theatre -- people are so used to watching at home, having a conversation in the middle of a program, that they do the same in the theatre. I'd not heard of anything this drastic -- but it wouldn't surprise me if I did.
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ReplyDeleteHai ragione, è un problema molto grave quello della mancanza di educazione e dell'arroganza ! Anche da noi c'è questo problema, purtroppo !! Tutto dipende dall'educazione in famiglia e a scuola. I telefonini, poi, non devono essere usati a scuola !! Saluti
ReplyDeleteOMG, the yougest are getting crazy or i don't know.
ReplyDeleteAnd like you said, they don't respect anything or anyone. I'm pregnant and i'm afraid of this new generation.
I'm a person with values and i'll going to make sure my son is getting their ones.
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I am so glad that we are sharing the same view on this matter. We live in sad times, Melody, and what we currently witness is a shocking cultural degradation. Young people do not respect their elders, and do not consider them their role models. Oftentimes they are disrespectful, demanding, rude and extremely ungrateful.
ReplyDeleteYou are exceptionally gentle in describing this God-forsaken student as "a lady". In my book she is just a spoiled brat. She got what she deserved. No sympathy from me. Oh, and I strongly believe that the mobile phones should be banned in schools. Students should only access them before/after school.
Firstly, for some reason I can't bring up the next post - if your numbers on it are down, that's why. It just sort of greys out the screen. Anyway, this is less about respecting elders and authority, but respecting others. I think she would have reacted the same if it was someone her age -firstly, most people don't want to be in your videos, secondly, you are in the way. You are blocking the ease of walking the corridors - go somewhere that you are not causing egress issues. It's simple.
ReplyDeleteThey say that a worse generation will come than Generation Z. It's a sad situation. What do you say? :(
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