A close-up photo of Melody Jacob, a Black woman with natural hair, smiling genuinely while holding the book, '21 Days to Financial Freedom: Countdown to Riches' by Rhonda Byrne, close to her face. She is looking directly at the camera.


Let's be honest for a second. 

Have you ever looked at your bank account and felt that cold, heavy knot in your stomach? You know the feeling. It's the anxiety that creeps in when the bills arrive, or the panic when you realize you're just shuffling money from one credit card to another, trying to stay afloat.

It’s the reality for so many people: mounting credit card debt, the stress of living paycheck to paycheck, and that draining feeling like you’re running a marathon but never getting ahead. We fall into debt through the slow creep of everyday life—the student loans that feel insurmountable, the "must-have" items purchased with plastic, the unexpected emergencies. It's a trap, and it feels like the walls are closing in. If that’s you right now, you are not alone.

For years, I’ve been fascinated by the idea of manifestation—the Law of Attraction—as a tool, not just for good parking spots, but for fundamental life change. Could it really work on something as concrete and unforgiving as debt? I mean, I love the positive thinking, but what about the actual, scary numbers?

So, when a personal letter from the manifestation guru herself, Rhonda Byrne, landed my door step, I was speechless.

I’m thrilled to share that I received an advanced copy of Rhonda Byrne’s latest book: 21 Days to Financial Freedom: Countdown to Riches. Rhonda, the incredible mind behind the global phenomenon, The Secret, guarantees this book holds the 21 wealth-attracting habits that will bring financial freedom to anyone who puts them into practice. She guarantees it: “I can assure you—from personal experience—they work.”

A clear, aesthetically pleasing shot of the book cover, '21 Days to Financial Freedom: Countdown to Riches,' resting outdoors on a light-colored bench in Springburn Park, Glasgow. The title and author, Rhonda Byrne, are clearly visible against a blurred background of green grass and trees.

This Way Up: When Maps Go Wrong (and Why it Matters) book review

Honestly, I almost didn't read this book. There, I said it.

I know, I know...it’s The Map Men. I’ve watched countless videos of them doing their wonderfully nerdy deep dives into the weirdest corners of cartography on YouTube, and I’ve laughed every single time. Their humor is just so specific and smart, but when I saw This Way Up, a beautiful, chunky hardback promising “geography, puzzles, and family fun,” I kept skipping over it. Perhaps because I felt like I already knew what I was going to get, or maybe I was just intimidated by adding another book to my pile. What finally draw me to read the book is the book cover.

But here’s the thing: I kept getting drawn back to it. It’s the color, mostly. It’s got this gorgeous, tactile feel, and the combination of the vibrant, almost retro-looking primary colors on the jacket is an immediate grabber. It manages to look both scholarly and completely playful at the same time, which, if you’re a fan of Map Men videos, is essentially their brand distilled into one physical object. After several cycles of picking it up, flicking through, and putting it down again, I finally admitted defeat and started reading.

And thank goodness I did, because this book is a triumph.

For those who haven’t watched their videos, Jay Foreman and Mark Cooper-Jones, The Map Men, are essentially cartographical nerds who use their platform to uncover the genuinely bizarre, hilarious, and sometimes frustrating stories hidden within maps and borders. Their debut book, This Way Up, translates that unique, witty outlook onto the page flawlessly, which is a rare feat for YouTube-to-book transitions. This isn’t just a compilation of facts; it’s a brilliantly entertaining collection of essays, puzzles, and downright baffling geographic oddities that will make you rethink every time you’ve looked at an atlas. Richard Osman called it ‘Educational, smart and funny’—and he’s absolutely right. It’s the kind of book that makes you burst out laughing and immediately want to share the absurd fact you just learned with whoever is nearest.

Speaking of sharing, let me tell you about the morning I finally decided to take the photos for this post. It was pure chaos, the kind of morning that usually sends me straight back to bed. I was already running ridiculously late for work, but I was determined to get that perfect cover shot. I rushed out the door, only to realize I hadn't eaten a thing and was absolutely not ready to face the workday on an empty stomach. So, I had to stop at McDonald's for their breakfast—priorities, right? Hot chocolate and egg McMuffin not healthy but a girl has to eat.

My partner was not having it that morning, bless him. As I was trying to angle the hardback just right in the less-than-ideal car light, grumbling that the photos “weren't coming out so well,” he was much more focused on me getting to work on time. The gentle, slightly panicked nagging from the passenger seat was a perfect soundtrack to my hurried amateur photography session. It’s funny how life insists on getting in the way of even the simplest creative tasks.

But hey, here are the photos, chaotic start and all. And I think that rush, that slight edge of 'everything's a bit much,' actually reflects the book’s content perfectly. Because geography, as The Map Men prove, isn't neat and tidy; it’s full of ridiculous human decisions, historical accidents, and downright messiness.

So, what is the book actually about?

This Way Up explores everything you never knew you needed to know about the world, structured around incredibly entertaining themes. You'll learn about things like the bizarre history of time zones, the world’s most pointless borders (prepare for your mind to be blown by the intricacies of the Baarle-Nassau/Baarle-Hertog boundary), and the incredible stories behind seemingly boring place names.

It’s the anecdotes that truly shine, however. The authors have a knack for finding the hilarious human element in dry government policies and ancient maps. For instance, I was captivated by the sheer absurdity of some of the geopolitical messes they describe—situations so illogical that they couldn’t have been invented. It provides a kind of intellectual satisfaction, the feeling of understanding a massive, global inside joke. The book manages to be accessible enough for casual readers (it's officially recommended for "family fun") while still offering enough depth to satisfy even the most hardened geography aficionado.

If you are a lover of puzzles, general knowledge, or just fantastic storytelling, you should absolutely pick up this book. It’s an instant Sunday Times bestseller and a Waterstones Best Nature & Travel Writing Book 2025 for a reason. It truly lives up to Matt Lucas’s praise that their unique and witty outlook translates brilliantly onto the page.

Have you read This Way Up yet? If not, let me tell you why you should: it’s the perfect antidote to boring non-fiction. It’s educational without ever feeling like homework, and it's so funny you’ll forget you’re learning.
 
The Map Men’s Funniest Stories

If you’re still on the fence about picking this up, let me stop you right there. This book is hilarious, and I’m not just saying that because I’m biased towards nerdy humor. The funny stuff isn't made up; it's pulled straight from the archives of human incompetence, which is, honestly, the best kind of funny.

Here are three of the stories that genuinely made me snort-laugh while reading:

1. The Case of the IKEA Map That Forgot an Entire Country (And it Wasn't the First Time!)

You know how sometimes you’re in IKEA, and you’re absolutely convinced the directions for the BILLY bookcase are written by someone who has a personal grudge against you? Well, it turns out their mapmakers are just as chaotic, but on a global scale.

The Map Men kick off the book with the unbelievably true story of a huge, glossy, decorative world map sold by IKEA. It was beautiful, but there was one massive, embarrassing problem: New Zealand was simply not there. Gone. Vanished. They just... forgot. I’m talking about a country the size of Great Britain, wiped off the face of the cartographical earth by a furniture retailer.

The sheer audacity of the blunder is funny enough, but The Map Men lean into the absurdity of it. It’s not just IKEA! Apparently, New Zealand has been snubbed so many times by mapmakers that it’s become an internet meme. The book reminds you that maps aren't just these infallible documents; they're made by humans who sometimes just accidentally delete a whole nation because, well, it was probably a late Friday afternoon. It makes you realize that when you look at a world map, there's a non-zero chance that some poor map intern just missed a continent-sized blob of land. Whoops!

2. The Border-Crossing Pub Where You Have to Move Your Pint Mid-Sip

Forget your local pub drama—this story is about a border so unbelievably messy, it makes crossing the street feel complicated. This is the tale of Baarle-Nassau and Baarle-Hertog, a single town where the border between the Netherlands and Belgium zig-zags through houses, gardens, and, yes, a pub.

The Map Men explain that this isn't a neat, straight line. It's a complicated jigsaw puzzle of tiny little Belgian enclaves sitting inside the Netherlands, which themselves sometimes contain even smaller Dutch counter-enclaves! It's geographic inception.

The funniest part is the practical fallout, particularly for the people running the establishments caught in the crossfire. There’s a pub (The Map Men might talk about it being the A La Frontière cafe) where the official border runs right through the middle of the dining room. Back in the day, if you were sitting on the Belgian side and the Dutch side had stricter closing times, the landlord literally had to ask you to pick up your drink and move two feet over to the Belgian side to finish your pint! Can you imagine? “Sorry mate, the Netherlands is closing, slide over to Belgium so you can keep drinking.” It’s a perfect illustration of how seriously (and ridiculously) people take lines drawn on a map.

3. The Paper Town That Ended Up Sending People on a Real-Life Wild Goose Chase

This story is one of my favorites because it proves that mapmakers sometimes have a wonderfully petty sense of humor. Before digital mapping, cartographers would often secretly add a completely fake, non-existent place to their maps—a “paper town” or “trap street.” They did this because if they ever found their map copied by a rival company, the fake town was proof of plagiarism. Smart, right?

But The Map Men share the hilarious consequence of this trick. A tiny, fictional village named Agloe was placed on a map in upstate New York. Decades later, another map company came along and, seeing this little dot on the map, decided it must be real, so they put it on their map too.

But here’s the kicker: Eventually, someone built a general store at that exact spot, and they literally named it Agloe General Store because they saw the name on the map! The fictional place had become real because of the map error itself! The whole thing snowballed from a made-up copyright trap to a genuine, physical location. It's the ultimate 'life imitates art' moment, except the 'art' was just a grumpy cartographer trying to catch a thief. It perfectly shows how a simple, silly mistake can accidentally reshape reality.

Seriously, those are just three drops in the ocean of hilarious chaos in This Way Up.

Grab a copy, turn it every which way, and prepare to have your understanding of the world completely, and hilariously, upended.

Melody Jacob holding When Maps Go Wrong (and Why it Matters)


Ben Elton's autobiography, What Have I Done?, is the kind of book you pick up expecting a breezy celebrity memoir and end up with a 470-page, deep-dive history lesson on the last four decades of British comedy and culture. It's an absolute must-read, a firework display of wit, insight, and just the right amount of glorious self-justification that makes it feel utterly authentic.

What’s instantly clear is that Ben Elton, the author, is every bit as acerbic, brilliant, and politically charged as the stand-up comic and writer we’ve watched for years. He’s a multi-award-winning machine—a novelist, playwright, lyricist, director, and the guy who essentially birthed the 'alternative comedy' revolution with Saturday Live.

This isn't a meek, retrospective look back; it's a frank, forthright, and energetic recounting of a massive career. He's clearly a writer who lives and breathes his work, and that passion leaps off every page. You get the sense of a mind that's constantly fizzing with ideas, occasionally missing the mark, but always, always committed to making people laugh, think, and, yes, getting on a few wicks in the process.


I and my partner have been saving this drink and wanting to have it when we could really enjoy it together...and then we had a road trip! We packed it and had it at sunset, that beautiful, golden hour light, right in Drumpellier Country Park. We sat, opened it, relaxed, and shared a couple of glasses. It was the perfect moment.

We had actually had a glass earlier that week, too, and we both absolutely loved it. And here is exactly why I'm now completely obsessed with Mother Root Ginger Switchel.

When the brand reached out and sent me a box to try, I was immediately drawn in. The aesthetic alone is gorgeous—I love the sunny yellow branding against the dark brown bottle. It looks like a heritage tonic, and the logo is really cool, too! But the contents? That’s the real magic.

What is Mother Root?

Before I get into the taste, let's talk about what this is. Mother Root is essentially a modern, premium take on a traditional tonic called a Switchel.

It’s an invigorating, non-alcoholic drink that is packed with potent, natural ingredients. Think of it as a delicious, fiery dose of goodness that’s great for your gut and an amazing alternative to sugary sodas or complicated cocktails.

The founder's goal was simple and brilliant: to create a drink that offers the satisfying, complex flavors of a cocktail but is non-alcoholic (0.1% ABV Alcohol-Free) and genuinely beneficial for your health. They wanted to deliver 'good feelings without compromise,' and honestly, they nailed it.


Hope in Action: A Memoir About the Courage to Lead — My Take on Sanna Marin’s Story

If you follow my Instagram, you might’ve seen the post where I shared my excitement about finally getting my copy of Hope in Action. But as always, I like to save my full reflections for the blog — and this book deserves it.

I still remember when the videos of Sanna Marin dancing broke out online. Headlines everywhere called her “the partying prime minister.” Politicians accused her of being unprofessional; others questioned her ability to lead. Watching that unfold felt cruel — a young woman leader being punished for simply being human. That noise made me curious about the person behind the headlines. So when I learned that Marin had written a memoir, I knew I had to read it.

The book, just over 250 pages, opens with her own words: “Hope is not naïve. It is a choice, and it requires action.” That line set the tone for everything that followed. Marin takes us through her early years growing up in a working-class Finnish family, raised by two women who struggled to make ends meet, yet instilled in her a fierce sense of fairness. By page 42, she writes about being the first in her family to attend university — and the quiet pressure that came with carrying other people’s hopes.

The most challenging section for me came midway through, when she describes those long nights during the first COVID-19 lockdowns. On page 118, she recalls sitting alone in her office at 2 a.m., drafting emergency decrees and wondering if the decisions she was making would cost lives. “Leadership,” she writes, “isn’t about certainty; it’s about carrying uncertainty with grace.” That line stayed with me. It reminded me that true courage often feels like doubt, not confidence.

Firmoo Black frame clear lenses

Why Firmoo Is the Only Place I Buy My Clear Glasses

There are some things in life that you just stick with. For me, they are things like eating by the riverside on a hot afternoon, enjoying my food really hot, and, most importantly, where I get my clear glasses. I have written about Firmoo on my blog several times and I consistently recommend it to absolutely everyone.

I’m talking about a brand I’ve personally trusted for more than six pairs now. I’ve even roped my dad into the fan club, he loves the frames I got him. Firmoo isn't just a place to buy glasses; it's a place that gets it right every single time, from the moment you click "order" to the moment they land on your face.

For a brand to earn this level of loyalty from me, they have to deliver on more than just looks. I’m a loyal influencer for this brand, and I know many of you are, too, so let's dig into why Firmoo is genuinely a leader in the online eyewear space.

Firmoo has always been a champion for making stylish, high-quality eyewear accessible to everyone. They understand that getting a prescription shouldn't break the bank. This focus on affordability without compromising quality is a huge achievement in the industry. It allows people to own multiple pairs for different looks, something that used to be an expensive luxury.

Their range of frames is unbelievable. Whether you're looking for a bold geometric look, a classic aviator, or something completely timeless, they have options for every face shape, style, and age. This dedication to diverse design shows they are constantly innovating and paying attention to current trends while also respecting classic style.

My Latest Firmoo Haul: Two New Everyday Essentials

My current rotation consists of two new pairs, and honestly, they perfectly illustrate why I’m such a massive fan. I needed two clear, everyday-friendly frames, and Firmoo delivered exactly what I asked for:

1. The Classic Look: Black Frames with Clear Lenses

This is my go-to "serious business" or "any outfit" pair. The black frame is crisp and modern, but the best part about this particular pair isn't how it looks, it's how it feels.

When I got a house in the Ukrainian countryside, it was pure magic. The peace was so profound, a quiet that seeped into my bones. I wasn't there for the people, not at first. I was there for the profound quiet and the space to just be. I had a mate and his wife nearby, and my life in the city was just a 40-minute ride away, but in the dead of winter, everything changes. The world outside becomes a beautiful, silent snow globe, and I find myself living in a different kind of time.

I was stuck. And alone. Just me, endless cups of tea, and movie marathons. Adding wood to the fireplace. And it was in that solitude, in that beautiful calmness, that I discovered I loved the countryside and enjoyed the calmness that came with it, along with other things I didn’t know existed.

When I picked up Hannah Kent's memoir, Always Home, Always Homesick, I felt an instant, deep connection. I could see myself in her words, in her story.

The book starts with Hannah Kent's trip to Iceland when she was a teenager. A place that looks cold and lonely on the outside, but for her, it became a close, life-changing place. She takes you along on her 17-year-old self’s emotional and physical journey as she navigates a new culture, language, and the profound sense of otherness that comes with living far from home. She doesn't just describe a place; she makes you feel it. You can almost feel the wind on your face and see the desolate, beautiful terrain through her eyes. This isn’t a story of a quick vacation; it's a story of becoming a part of a place and letting it become a part of you.


Reading Rebel Rising felt like an absolute heart-to-heart with someone who really gets it—you know, the dizzying highs, the frustrating lows, and all that messy middle-ground of life. I’ve always loved Rebel Wilson on screen, of course, but this book completely showed me a side of her I genuinely didn’t expect: so vulnerable, incredibly real, and relentlessly determined.

What Really Hit Home for Me

That question she constantly wrestles with—“Am I good enough?”—seriously resonated with me. It instantly brought back those moments in my own life when self-doubt tried to creep in, and how easy it is to let fear be the thing that holds you back. Seeing the way she faced constant rejection, harsh criticism, and her own personal struggles made me really reflect on my own challenges, but in a totally different light.

Her openness about both her health journey and her career hurdles was so inspiring. It was such a great reminder that setbacks are never failures—they’re just a part of the long journey, and true resilience is quietly built, step by patient step.
A close-up of the blogger's hands holding "The Royal Mint Puzzle Book" open, emphasizing the personal journey into British coinage history.

You guys know me – I'm always on the hunt for something that sparks my curiosity, something that's a little bit unique, and definitely something that lets me learn without feeling like I'm "learning." So, when I stumbled upon The Royal Mint Puzzle Book, my inner history buff and puzzle enthusiast did a happy dance. Let me tell you why you need this book in your life.

First off, let’s just appreciate the concept here. This isn't just any puzzle book. This is from The Royal Mint, the official folks who make all of Britain's coins. I mean, how cool is that? Immediately, I knew this wasn't going to be some generic collection of crosswords. Oh no, this was going to be steeped in history, rich with facts, and probably a lot more clever than I was ready for. And I was right.

From the moment I opened the book, I was hooked. The book boasts 125 puzzles, but they're not just random brain teasers. Every single one is woven into over a thousand years of British currency and coinage history. Can you believe it? It's like a mental scavenger hunt through time, and honestly, that's what gives it such a special, personal feel for me. I’m not just solving a riddle; I’m uncovering a piece of history.

I’m talking about everything from cryptic codes that make you feel like a secret agent decoding ancient messages, to logic problems that really make your brain hum. And trust me, some of them are properly challenging. There are even sections dedicated to historical figures like Sir Isaac Newton (who, fun fact, was Master of the Mint!) and Oliver Cromwell. It’s like getting a mini-biography paired with a mental workout. I found myself googling things to learn more after solving a puzzle, which is the sign of a truly engaging book, right?

What I truly adore about this book is its ability to make history feel alive and incredibly relevant. I've always been fascinated by how societies function, and money is such a fundamental part of that. To see the evolution of coins, the stories behind their designs, and the figures who shaped their creation, all while trying to decipher a tricky puzzle—it’s just brilliant. It feels like a secret club for history lovers and puzzle addicts.

If you're anything like me – someone who loves to challenge their mind, enjoys a good historical tidbit, or just appreciates the beauty and significance of currency – then The Royal Mint Puzzle Book is an absolute must-have. It’s perfect for a cozy evening in, a quiet afternoon with a cup of tea, or even a gift for that notoriously hard-to-buy-for friend. Trust me, it's a rewarding experience that’s way more than just a puzzle book. It’s a journey.

Have any of you tried it? Or do you have other historical puzzle books you love? Let me know in the comments below. I’m always looking for my next brain-teaser.

Blogger seated and enthusiastically holding the colorful cover of "The Royal Mint Puzzle Book," ready for a mental challenge.

Melody Jacob reading "The Royal Mint Puzzle Book" while seated, illustrating deep engagement with the historical and numismatic puzzles.

The subject wearing a striking party dress with defined curls, pearl studs, and red heels. Photo highlights the dramatic color contrast of the outfit.


I finally got a chance to wear this absolute masterpiece—the Colorblock Ruffle Patchwork Sleeveless Party Mini Dress from Loragal (SKU:K735050164275470336). Seriously, you need to see this dress up close.

The design is just dramatic and so unique. It starts with a super sleek, high-neck black sleeveless bodice that is perfectly fitted. Then, from the waist down, the skirt flares out in this gorgeous, voluminous way. The real showstopper is the hem: it’s completely covered in these bold, textured red ruffle rosettes that are so vibrant against the black. It gives the whole look this amazing, playful-yet-sophisticated silhouette.

A Quick Styling Secret

Okay, so real talk for a second: I ran into one little issue. I'm wearing a size small, and while the fit everywhere else was great, the seam where all those gathers and ruffles meet at the waist was surprisingly itchy against my skin. I honestly don't know what they did with the stitching there.

To fix it, I just slipped on a singlet underneath, and problem solved. Sometimes you have to improvise to make fashion work, right? But seriously, if you order it, just keep a little cami or singlet handy.

I was so lucky to catch that incredible golden hour light for the photos on our way back from Elgin. The warm glow on the paved path and the lush greenery in the background made the red and black pop even more.

I paired the dress with my sparkly high heels (a beautiful birthday gift) and kept my accessories simple with classic pearl studs. Of course, I had to match the energy of those red ruffles with a bold red lipstick—it just ties the whole look together.

I felt so confident and joyful in this outfit. It truly combines elegance with dramatic style. What do you all think of the color combo? Let me know your favorite part of the look.

Melody Jacob wearing a Ruffle Patchwork Sleeveless Party Mini Dress from Loragal

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