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Yesterday, on my way home from work, I popped into a store and found this lovely black top. With Women’s Day around the corner, I wanted something simple yet beautiful. I picked up a black stretchy zip-front bodysuit top from Quiz Clothing at Buchanan Galleries here in Glasgow. The best part? It was incredibly affordable and fits like a dream.

Afterward, I swung by the Africa store to pick up ingredients for a special Women’s Day meal. It turned out to be so delicious that I ended up eating with such gusto that I got filled and had to save some for this morning's breakfast.

To celebrate Women’s Day in style, I paired the top with pink floral flare pants from H&M and my trusty white Converse sneakers, a thoughtful gift from my partner. A pair of stud earrings from Quiz Clothing added a touch of sparkle. As for my hair, after a week of keeping it pulled back, I opted for a ponytail that I braided and wrapped around due to the rough texture at the back.


Oh, the joy of being a woman! It's truly the greatest gift from God – the ability to bring life into the world, nourish it, nurture it, and even sacrifice for it. It's an incredible privilege that fills me with gratitude every day.

On this International Women’s Day, I want to express my deepest gratitude to my mom, who dedicated herself to our family's well-being, sacrificing so much to make our dreams a reality. She's truly remarkable and has a heart of gold.

My mom is like a guiding light, leading us through life's journey with unwavering love and support. She's patient, always there to lend an ear, and I'm forever grateful to have her as my hero.

Her prayers are like a shield, protecting me from life's challenges. And her wisdom, oh, it's invaluable. From her, I've learned the power of prayer, hard work, kindness, and forgiveness.

She's also an incredible cook – a talent she's been praised for countless times. Her meals are a source of joy and comfort, bringing our family together in love and laughter.

Growing up, she instilled in me the importance of decency, modesty, and self-respect. And her stance against alcohol taught me valuable lessons about health and self-discipline.

But perhaps her greatest gift to me is teaching me the bible. Through her, I've learned to lean on God in times of trouble, knowing that His guidance will always light my path.

I owe everything to my mom and sister. They've shaped me into the woman I am today, and I'll forever cherish their love and wisdom.

Many women can relate to this, and I just want to say to anyone who gets to read this post that it doesn’t matter whether you are being appreciated or not in your own corner; just know that I appreciate you.
Evri, formerly known as Hermes: Delivery person stole my parcel for the fourth time.

On February 29th, I received an email notifying me that my package had arrived from a company called Evri, formerly known as Hermes. Upon returning home, I discovered that the parcel was missing from where it was supposed to be. I checked with my neighbors, but they weren't available. Immediately, I contacted the company to file a complaint. However, despite their automated response promising a callback, I never received one. Repeated attempts to reach them were met with their unresponsive answering machine. It seems impossible to contact them, and they don't attempt to reach out either.

The next day, after returning from work, I asked my neighbors about the parcel, but they said they hadn't seen any delivery, as they hadn't been around.

Checking Instagram, I found numerous complaints from people who had caught Evri drivers/delivery staff on camera stealing their parcels.

Here's how the scheme works: the drivers take a picture of the parcel, send you an email claiming it's been delivered to your doorstep, and then simply walk away with it.

My parcel has been stolen by Evri four times, and I'm frustrated by the lack of communication. I suspect this isn't just a problem among delivery personnel but extends to the company's management benefiting from these thefts.
I tried on these jackets in winter, but none of them were warm enough. They felt more like spring jackets because they weren't very thick. Now that winter is ending, I want to see if they have any left to buy for spring or the time just before winter.

I've been to the Next store many times, and the one in Glasgow is different from the one in Ukraine, especially in terms of quality. In my opinion, the quality and style of things in Ukraine are much better.

Anyway, which one of these Next jackets do you like?

1. Brown Heritage Check Overcoat: This brown overcoat is part of the Rochelle Humes collection. It has a checked pattern and a relaxed fit, perfect for layering. The coat has a classic look with a notched lapel collar and a double-breasted button-up fastening. It also has front slip patch pockets.

- Made from a woolen blend fabric
- Features a heritage check pattern
- Double-breasted design
- Longline style
- Regular fit
- Long sleeves
- Button front fastening
- Front slip patch pockets
- Regular centre back neck to hem: 47 inches (120 cm)
- Dry clean only
- Composition: 51% Polyester, 26% Wool, 13% Acrylic, 6% Nylon, 4% Viscose

Brown Heritage Check Overcoat


2. This is a Camel Belted Long Coat. It's a stylish coat that you can wear many times. You can wear it over casual clothes every day or as the final touch to a more formal outfit. It has a belt to cinch in at the waist, a shawl collar, and buttons on the cuffs and shoulders. It also has flap pockets on the front.

- Belted to cinch in at the waist
- Shawl collar
- Button detailing on the cuffs
- Flap pockets on the front

Regular length from the back of the neck to the hem: 48 inches (122 cm)
It's washable and made of 100% Polyester.
Analyzing an Alarming Question I was asked about rape

Earlier this year, around early February, someone I used to casually meet up with and stroll around the city or visit the library with brought up a conversation that caught my attention.

They asked me, "How do you prove rape between a male and female who are friends?" At first, I didn't fully grasp the question and responded that rape can be proven in various ways, but they insisted that wasn't what they were asking.

They repeated the question, clarifying that they meant how rape could be proven between friends if a woman was raped by her male friend. They confidently stated it couldn't be proven.

This made me uneasy, wondering why such a question suddenly arose. I felt uncomfortable, sensing there was more to this conversation than met the eye.

I felt like this conversation was testing my wisdom and how I'd react to such a situation. Despite my discomfort, I composed myself and explained that rape is a serious matter and can be proven through various means. However, they countered by saying it would essentially be her word against his.

Something about their demeanor and the way they discussed the topic didn't sit right with me. It felt like the question came from a place of ulterior motives rather than genuine curiosity.

When I got home, the conversation lingered in my mind. I confided in a friend, who advised me to be cautious around this person. I decided it was best to distance myself from them. While I would acknowledge them if I saw them, I chose to keep my interactions brief.

I felt that this person was asking me this question to gauge how I would react to such a situation and whether I would agree with their assertion that rape couldn't be proven. It seemed like they were testing my response, hoping I would also affirm that it couldn't be proven. However, my conscience couldn't align with such a dismissive attitude towards such a serious issue.

Sometimes, when people ask strange or unsettling questions out of nowhere, it's important to listen to your instincts. Our intuition often tells us when something isn't right, whether it's mere curiosity or something more sinister.

In my life, I've encountered people who asked peculiar questions, only to later learn they were involved in situations related to those questions. People can be unsettling, especially towards women. It's crucial to guide yourself because that's the only thing you truly own on this earth.

I wanted to share this experience and ask for opinions: Did I make the right choice in cutting off ties with this person? What do you think?
The Old Oak movie is about some Syrians who had to leave their country because of the war and ended up in a northern English mining town. At first, the people in the town didn't want them there. But there was a man who owned a big pub, and even though he'd lost his wife and his son was not speaking to him, he welcomed them and encouraged others to do the same. However, not everyone agreed with him. Some people wanted him to stop being nice to the Syrians. Tragedy strikes when his beloved dog, Marra, is killed by another canine. Moreover, the secondary room of his bar opened in response to the Syrian girl's encouragement, and he sustained severe damage after his close friends tampered with a pipe, causing the damage.

After watching a movie, I wanted to share about it. Sometimes, when people come from places where there's been war, it can be hard for them to fit in somewhere new. People might feel confused or scared about strangers coming into their community, especially if they don't know much about them. But one thing is for sure: being kind and understanding is important, no matter where someone is from or what they look like.

The Old Oak Movie Review
SOURCE: JOSS BARRATT/SIXTEEN FILMS ‘THE OLD OAK’

This movie sheds light on the struggles refugees face as they flee from war-torn regions in search of safety and peace. Locals must understand that many individuals don't willingly leave their homelands to reside in camps or unfamiliar territories. They simply make do with the hand life deals them, prioritizing survival amid the horrors of war.

Should you encounter anyone seeking refuge from a war zone in your community, it's essential to treat them with kindness. Refrain from derogatory remarks, and extend a helping hand by providing clothing and basic necessities if you can spare them. Avoid belittling them; they're grappling with trauma, compounded by the realization that some locals may harbor resentment towards them. Feeling like strangers in a foreign land only adds to their sorrow. Many have witnessed the loss of loved ones but pressed on in search of safety. Remember, circumstances can swiftly change; therefore, kindness should always prevail.

Release date: 29 September 2023 (UK)
Director: Ken Loach
Distributed by: StudioCanal UK, Le Pacte
Box office: $7.4 million
Cinematography: Robbie Ryan
Music by: George Fenton

Why didn't I share this product with all my blog readers? I mean, I was just using it until it was finished, lol. I have always liked using shea butter on my skin, but nowadays, finding good products is like searching for air in the ocean.

Let me tell you why I like the Planted Bioavailable skincare: virgin shea and cocoa whipped body butter. It feels good and just right, providing a mild yet moisturizing sensation. When I started using it, I felt like it was just because it was the first application on my skin, but no, I loved it even more. The shine on my skin and its soft, luxurious texture made me feel good. Your skin appearance can serve as a reflection of your overall health. Effective skincare goes beyond product selection to include considerations such as dietary habits, clothing materials, and sun exposure.

Virgin shea and cocoa whipped body butter.

While skincare products are significant, maintaining moisturized skin is also influenced by adequate hydration and the use of high-quality skincare products. Shea butter, renowned for its beneficial components, contributes to skin health. Planted Skincare provides a trusted and dependable solution for all your skincare needs. I appreciate the subtle natural citrus cocoa scent; it's 74% organic, a rarity these days. Recommended for all skin types.

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The perfect spring bridesmaid dress

If there is one thing I can tell you about this dress, it's that I love it, especially the color and the lace top. Lace just has a way of making a dress look even prettier.

Choosing your bridal dress can sometimes be quite a task. You have to consider everyone and hope they like it. If you are planning a spring wedding and want to have bridesmaids, then you might want to choose a dress that matches the season and the theme of your wedding.

Bridesmaids come in all shapes and sizes, and there are different materials that you might want to consider, other than the popularly used silk and satin. You can dress your bridesmaids in light dresses during spring. Pastels are spring's favorite colors: light blue, butter yellow, lavender, and baby pink. These soft colors will make the girls look soft and fresh while also complementing the color theme and sticking to the spring theme.

Woman in Lace Light Blue Long Sleeve Dress standing against a spring backdrop.

4 things to consider when choosing your bridesmaid dress

Theme: Think about the vibe of your wedding day. If you're going for a romantic garden look, a rustic outdoor feel, or a modern party, your bridesmaid dresses should match that style. Choose soft and pretty fabrics like chiffon or lace to match the fresh feeling of spring.

Season: Since your wedding is in spring, you have lots of options for dresses! Pick light and flowy fabrics like chiffon or organza that capture the breezy, floral feel of the season. These fabrics will keep your bridesmaids feeling comfy and looking stylish all day long.

Color: When you're choosing colors for your spring wedding, go for soft pastels like pink, lavender, mint, or light blue. These colors bring out the springtime vibe and make your wedding feel romantic and dreamy.

Woman holding bouquet while wearing Lace Light Blue Long Sleeve Dress.

Elevate Your Fitness Routine: Stylish Activewear Must-Haves for Spring

As spring begins to bloom in Glasgow, there's a refreshing sense of renewal in the air. The days are getting longer, the weather is warming up, and it's the perfect time to shake off the winter blues and embrace a healthier, more active lifestyle. Staying fit and healthy is not just about what you eat; it's about being intentional with your exercise routine. As someone who's been struggling to stay motivated with home workouts, I'm excited to share some stylish indoor sportswear essentials that are perfect for getting back on track.

With the promise of warmer days ahead, I'm gearing up to join a new fitness class and take my workouts outdoors. Whether you're hitting the gym, going for a run in the park, or sweating it out at home, having the right activewear is essential for feeling comfortable, confident, and ready to conquer any workout. And that's where Berlook comes in, a sustainable brand on a mission to end disposable plastic materials.

It's a really cool brand that cares about our planet. They're all about stopping plastic waste and helping the Earth. You know, plastic doesn't go away and can hurt our oceans. But Berlook has a solution - they make swimwear from recycled materials! Isn't that awesome?

They're super proud that all their swimwear is made from stuff that's been recycled and certified by the Global Recycled Standard. That means they're helping the environment and making sure their swimwear is soft and stretchy too! And get this - each swimsuit top is made from about 5 plastic bottles! That's a lot of bottles saved from hurting our oceans.

Berlook wants us to help too! They say if we all use more recycled stuff, we can make a big difference for our planet. So let's join them and make our oceans clean and happy! Go Berlook!

Spring Fitness Essentials: Stylish Activewear for Your Workout Journey

One of my favorite pieces from Berlook is their Navy High Waisted Leggings 24. These leggings are not only stylish but also incredibly comfortable and versatile. Made from a blend of Nylon and Spandex, they offer the perfect balance of flexibility, durability, and support. The high-waisted design provides a flattering silhouette, while the moisture-wicking fabric keeps you cool and dry during even the toughest workouts. Plus, with no outside seams, you can say goodbye to chafing and irritation, allowing you to focus on giving your all.

Berlook offers a range of stylish activewear essentials that are perfect for renewal workouts. They are soft with a relaxing feel on the skin. From their Green Cross Back Sports Bra to their Army Green Middle Waisted Leggings 25 which I am wearing, each piece is designed to help you look and feel your best, whether you're hitting the gym or going for a run outdoors. You can use the coupon code me20 to get 20% off your purchase.

So why is investing in stylish activewear important? Well, aside from the obvious aesthetic benefits, wearing the right workout gear can actually enhance your performance and motivation. When you look good, you feel good, and that can translate to improved confidence and focus during your workouts. Plus, high-quality activewear is designed to move with your body, providing the support and flexibility you need to push yourself to the next level.
Woman wearing Pleated Black Long Sleeve V Neck Dress with burgundy floral lace patchwork bodice and pleated skirt.

Are you eager to upgrade your style and exude sophistication without breaking the bank? Look no further! In this guide, I will show you how to achieve an expensive and classy look for spring without spending a fortune. Plus, we'll feature the stunning Pleated Black Long Sleeve V Neck Dress from Rosewe, priced at an affordable £42.16. With its unique design featuring a burgundy floral lace patchwork bodice and pleated skirt, this dress is the perfect blend of chic and budget-friendly.

First and foremost, let's explore the essential elements that create a luxurious outfit without the high price tag. Learn how to achieve an expensive-looking style affordably.

Close-up of Pleated Black Long Sleeve V Neck Dress bodice with intricate floral lace patchwork.

1. Invest in Timeless Pieces: When building a stylish wardrobe on a budget, focus on timeless pieces that never go out of fashion. My pleated dress is a prime example of a versatile wardrobe staple that can be dressed up or down for various occasions.

2. Pay Attention to Fabric and Texture: Quality fabrics elevate the overall look of an outfit. The texture of my dress exudes luxury and sophistication, making it appear far more expensive than its modest price tag suggests.

3. Opt for Classic Colors and Silhouettes: Neutral colors like black exude elegance and are easy to mix and match with other wardrobe items. The classic silhouette of the dress enhances its timeless appeal, ensuring that it remains a chic choice season after season.

Woman in Pleated Black Long Sleeve V Neck Dress accessorized with black high-heeled sandals.

4. Accessorize Thoughtfully: Accessories can make or break an outfit. Pairing the Pleated Dress with black high-heeled sandals, a black patent bag, and a fascinator adds an extra touch of glamour and completes the sophisticated look.

5. Focus on Fit and Tailoring: Proper fit is essential for creating a polished and expensive-looking ensemble. The dress hugs the body in all the right places, enhancing confidence and poise while offering a comfortable fit.

Woman holding black patent bag while wearing Pleated Black Long Sleeve V Neck Dress.

Now, let's discuss how to style a Pleated Black Long Sleeve V Neck Dress for a high-class spring look:

- Daytime Chic: For a daytime outing, layer a tailored blazer over the dress and pair it with nude pumps for a sophisticated yet understated look. Add a statement necklace and oversized sunglasses for a touch of glamour.

- Evening Glamour: Transition seamlessly from day to night by swapping the blazer for a faux fur stole and trading the pumps for strappy heels. Opt for bold jewelry and a sleek clutch to elevate the ensemble for evening elegance.

- Spring Wedding Attire: Attending a spring wedding? The Pleated Black Long Sleeve V Neck Dress is the perfect choice for a guest ensemble. Pair it with delicate jewelry, a floral hair accessory, and strappy sandals for a romantic and feminine look.

Woman wearing Pleated Black Long Sleeve V Neck Dress with fascinator in hair.

In conclusion, achieving an expensive-looking style on a budget is entirely achievable with the right approach. By investing in timeless pieces, paying attention to fabric and texture, and accessorizing thoughtfully, you can elevate your spring wardrobe without breaking the bank. The Pleated Black Long Sleeve V Neck Dress from Rosewe is a prime example of affordable luxury, allowing you to exude sophistication and class effortlessly. With its impeccable craftsmanship and versatile design, this dress is sure to become a staple in your wardrobe for seasons to come.

Woman in Pleated Black Long Sleeve V Neck Dress posing with confidence.
Beautiful black woman holding a valentine's day card

February is almost over, and while we eagerly anticipate spring, the weather continues to fluctuate. I had been delaying sharing my Valentine's gift due to a backlog of posts. However, as February draws to a close, I decided it's now or never. I received flowers, a card, and plenty of delicious treats.

My partner surprised me with a lovely card and a bouquet of flowers. I cherish life's simple pleasures, finding joy in even the smallest moments. The card and flowers brought me immense happiness, filling my heart with warmth and countless smiles.

Receiving flowers is always a delightful gesture, although I understand not everyone shares the same sentiment. I texted my partner to inquire about the meaning behind the flowers and attached is a screenshot of his reply.

Even though the flower was near a window and heater, altering its look, I was determined to capture its beauty. I'm thankful for my partner's thoughtful gift, which brought me joy. I pray God blesses and guides him. Amen.

Did you also receive wonderful gifts for Valentine's? Feel free to share your experiences!

My Valentine's Day Gifts from My Partner

Black woman holding a flower

Quote of the day

Please remember to bring it to the Lord in prayer. Melody Jacob
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